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Psychopaths and Love

Psychopaths and Love [Kindle Edition]

A.B. Admin
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Psychopaths aren't capable of love. Find out what happens when they target someone who is, in this insightful and practical book by a woman who was a victim.

When we're daydreaming about falling in love none of us thinks that we might fall for a psychopath. The author didn't even know it was a possibility, let alone as common as it is -- until it happened to her. No one is immune.

Most victims say they believed they had met their soul mate. But as the psychopath gains power and control, what seemed like heaven becomes an ever-worsening emotional hell.

This is not about men who are out to use women for sex or for anything else. A psychopath's goals are much more sinister than that. His plan is to dominate, control and humiliate the victim so he can diminish her in every way, while he savors watching the process unfold. Using her is only secondary.

The aftermath can include rage, obsessive thoughts, lost self-esteem, fear, anxiety, the inability to trust, use of drugs, physical illness, and irrational and extreme behavior such as withdrawal or even suicide.

Don't let it happen to you. If it already has, don't let it happen again.

This book -- which contains the best material from the author's popular blog, as well as new writings -- will help you gain a clearer understanding of these harmful pathological relationships. Learn what a psychopath is and how to possibly spot one if you're being pursued. Find out what makes you vulnerable. Learn how to tell if you're being manipulated. Finally, get ideas about healing afterward and for preventing it from happening again -- or for the first time.

"I wish I could have read this half year ago. Thanks a million." Liu

"I cannot tell you how much this has helped me today. I cannot get anything done because I can’t stop reading! My whole life has been a mess because of these men. My eyes are finally opened – maybe a bit late, but still opened." SuckerNoMore

"Thank you for making me feel sane again." Tom

"I wish I had read this years ago; it would have saved me money, heartbreak and pain. I met a one eight years ago and I believed I was with the man of my dreams. It's been a nightmare. I often wondered how I got caught up in this crap but reading about it has open my eyes." Michelle

"I truly believe this info saved my life! I thank God I found it and I thank God you are eloquent enough to cut right thru to all the things I have been experiencing with this monster but was never able to verbalize! it felt like you were speaking directly to me! Thank you again for all the incredibly insightful info." Duped
"I have no words but thank you so very much!" Anthony

"After countless sessions with a therapist this makes more simplistic sense of what I had been going through in marriage. Very insightful and I wish the readers acknowledged. Wellness." Eric

"I just want you to know what a valuable service you’ve provided by creating this site. I stumbled upon it the other day while doing some research on psychopathy in an attempt to understand how the individual I was involved with could do all the things he did. It was such a relief to realize, after reading several of your posts, that this monster who had me believing he was one in a million is actually just one OF a million… psychopaths. He’s no more than a common, predictable set of symptoms and patterns. He fits the mold perfectly. I understand better than ever now that none of this was my fault; that he targeted me; and that the mental anguish he put me through was something I could not have resisted if I tried… because I could never be someone who thinks the way he does. Your information helped me realize that fully and take that last step of discarding any last little attempt to “reconcile” the unthinkable." L.B.

"Thank you for a brilliant and concise definition of a psychopath. This information is the best I have seen on this topic...I now know I am not crazy. Thank you.

About the Author

A.B.Admin is the former victim of a psychopath. She lives in the Southeast and is a writer, an artist and the companion of a shaggy little dog who is always by her side. She loves late autumn, the mountains, cooking for friends and helping others overcome adversity.

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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 942 KB
  • Print Length: 107 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1492945870
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  • Language: English
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow! 1 Feb 2014
By Letitia
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I read this book from cover to cover in less than a day because I just could not put it down.
I am so grateful to the author for putting this together.
I found that it really expanded my understanding of this condition and how a relationship with a psychopath had destroyed my being.
I feel like this book will be of profound help with my healing and also in helping me to avoid these very sick people in the future.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
By Kate
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Before I became involved with a psychopathic lover, I did not know such a person existed. This book describes the whole disturbing process so succinctly, I felt we could be writing about the same person.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars brilliant book 20 April 2014
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This would be a book for both men and women, as there are female and male wolves amongst us!.

Very easy to read and puts the heads up on anyone starting a relationship or taking on potential business partners.

Very insightful!!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Better than Good 13 Mar 2014
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The best book on understanding common traits for psychopaths. I love it from the very first minute it has no academic resources/value however cites some authors. Nice book of easy understanding for the lay person.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars brilliant 31 Oct 2013
By Natalie
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Very good book! One of the best books I read about psychopaths! And it's good to read a book that the author has been through herself. It's really helped me to move forward and spot these types of people!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Buy it!!! 29 July 2014
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This book is extremely good, simple and easy to read. It clearly lays out the behaviours of the psychopath. I don't agree that all of the P's set out to hurt you intentionally. It would have been helpful if there was more about helping people who were targeted move forward.

Overall a very useful book, definitely recommend buying it if you have had any encounters with a P, the information it contains is somewhat soothing to read and understand what you were dealing with. With P's knowledge is power, even if it's after they have left you, it's still a helpful read to assist your recovery.
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