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Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane) [Paperback]

Gavin De Becker
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Book Description

1 Jun 2000
Safety skills for children outside the home
Warning signs of sexual abuse
How to screen baby-sitters and choose schools
Strategies for keeping teenagers safe from violence

All parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children's safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to believe, what to doubt, what to fear, and what not to fear. In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior and author of the monumental bestseller The Gift of Fear, offers practical new steps to enhance children's safety at every age level, giving you the tools you need to allow your kids freedom without losing sleep yourself. With daring and compassion, he shatters the widely held myths about danger and safety and helps parents find some certainty about life's highest-stakes questions:

How can I know a baby-sitter won't turn out to be someone who harms my child? (see page 103)
What should I ask child-care professionals when I interview them? (see page 137)
What's the best way to prepare my child for walking to school alone? (see page 91)
How can my child be safer at school? (see page 175)
How can I spot sexual predators? (see page 148)
What should I do if my child is lost in public? (see page 86)
How can I teach my child about risk without causing too much fear? (see page 98)
What must my teenage daughter know in order to be safe? (see page 191)
What must my teenage son know in order to be safe? (see page 218)
And finally, in the face of all these questions, how can I reduce the worrying? (see page 56)

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Product details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group; Reprint edition (1 Jun 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 9780440509004
  • ISBN-13: 978-0440509004
  • ASIN: 0440509009
  • Product Dimensions: 15.2 x 2.4 x 23.3 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (33 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 40,260 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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1.0 out of 5 stars "The Gift of Fear"...rehashed 10 Jun 1999
By A Customer
I am a big fan of Gavin De Becker. I found "The Gift of Fear" helpful, intelligent and, often, frighteningly insightful. I have recommended it many times. That said, I am sad to report that I think it extremely misleading to present "Protecting The Gift" as a new book. Anecdotes aren't just warmed over, they're served up word for word. Whole chunks of chapters are identical to the first book, with only subjects changed to refer to parents and children rather than to adults. I rushed to buy this book and my advice is, if you have the first one, don't bother. As honorable as De Becker's mission seems to be, I'd say his editor and publisher are responsible for a pretty major consumer rip-off. Only the appendices seem new.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read! 23 May 1999
By A Customer
As a retired federal law enforcement official and former instructor at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center in Brunswick, Georgia, I am familiar with Gavin De Becker and his Mosaic systems. So it should be no surprise that I rated "Protecting The Gift" at 5-stars. This one picks up right where "The Gift of Fear" left off. I was especially interested in his chapter on children at school. During my federal career I was intimately involved in training workers in how to deal with violence in the workplace. I also worked part time in youth programs and before it became popular, I was involved in helping public schools develop safety programs. Presently I am working in the "trenches" in a Northern Virginia high school as a Safety and Security Specialist. I help take the kids off the bus, I'm with them all day and I help put them on the busses at the end of the day. Gavin De Becker wrote MY book when he wrote Protecting The Gift. It is that good! It is a book that should be REQUIRED reading for all school administrators and parents. The part of the book that really gave me a "charge" came on page 21 where De Becker says "If we do all we can to protect children and invest them with a deep belief that they are safe, they will be less afraid, and thus less likely to be violent toward others." I have seen this in action. I have over 35 years as a practitioner in keeping people safe. This book by De Becker is a "a must read."
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Format:Hardcover
This book made me aware of just how much women ignore their own internal safety signals. I have purchased several copies to give to friends who live alone and have shared their insecurities with regard to being single women in today's violent environment. This is a must read!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Ever have a hunch and ignore it? 26 Aug 1999
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
Gavin Points out that your inner voice should not be suppresed, and I agree. All men that need a bit of insight into women and thier fears, need to read this. And all women need to read this period.
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3.0 out of 5 stars Worried about your Children? You will be soon. 20 Aug 1999
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
If you don't already worry enough about your children, you will after the first chapter of this book. For those parents who trust their instincts, try not to worry about everything, are not overly protective, but teach their children how to be safe in an unpredictable situation, this book just might scare you into worrying about things you never thought you had to worry about. Recognizing that this was not DeBecker's intent in writing, but you may only be able to read a few pages at time so as not to cause a nightmare.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Protecting the Gift completely surprised me... 14 July 1999
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
Those too timorous to face the subject of threats to children's safety will find genuine strength in this book. Somehow, Gavin de Becker overcame a devastatingly violent childhood to become an expert not only on accurately predicting violence, which he illustrates ingeniously, but on when and where to feel safe, and whom to trust and why. This network of safety is so much more valuable than just teaching paranoia, a big mistake in De Becker's view. The last of his 12 succinct points for safety, the warning not to let a potential abductor lure or threaten a child (or anyone) into going along to a second location more beneficial to the abductor is worth the price of the book. I'm glad I didn't miss Gavin de Becker's warm and wise insight into the roots and the prevention of violence.
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Format:Hardcover
I read Gavin's first book, "The Gift of Fear," when it was originally published. Ever since then, I had hoped that he would write another. It must've been kismet when I had turned on "Oprah", (daytime television is not something I normally do), and there he was discussing "Protecting the Gift."This book is absolutely priceless in the information it provides. Gavin's writing style is easy to comprehend and makes for a quick read. The real life incidents cited here are often moving, but more importantly, they are examples of everyday folks who proved to be the strongest of survivors. I commend those who bravely told their stories to Mr. de Becker so that others could learn.I only wish that someone had written this book many, many decades ago, so that close friends of mine and dear family members could have protected themselves against the violence and sexual abuse that they endured for so many years. Or those around them could have noticed the tell-tale signs and intervened. But now I have a copy and when the day comes for me to be a Mother, I intend to give MY gift this important one.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must have...
This book is a 'must have' for all parents, and came as a real revelation to me! I just wish I'd had it years ago when my son was much younger. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Stace
5.0 out of 5 stars Another Must-Read
DeBecker has, once again, illustrated that he knows what he's talking about. Despite some others' criticisms, he is not "selling fear", but rather attempting to dispell... Read more
Published on 1 Sep 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars A very good book with great advice
As a parent of four I must say I really enjoyed this book. We can never be too overprotective of our children. It's a dangerous and crazy world out there. Read more
Published on 26 Aug 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars Gavin De Becker is my hero
What can I say about this wonderful book and the incredible manwho wrote it. His words have helped me immensely in many aspects of my life, not just in parenting.
Published on 24 Aug 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars A book so important, I give it as a baby shower gift!
This is the best book I've read to address the safety of our children. It is genius in its simplicity...you could teach very young kids his tactics without ever scaring them. Read more
Published on 14 Aug 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars You have to read this book!!! Very informational.
This is definately a must read for all parents, grandparents, etc. It also wouldn't hurt if daycare providers, and pediatricians read it as well. Read more
Published on 11 Aug 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST read for all parents-A should read for everyone else!
This book should be on all recommended reading lists at all Lamaze and other birthing classes; All parenting classes! Read more
Published on 6 Aug 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a great book and a must for new parents.
This is a great book. For any new parent (as I am) or for anyone with kids, this book provides some very practical steps to take to protect your kids. Read more
Published on 19 July 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars A hard-edged, reality check, must read for all parents!
As the mother of a beautiful baby girl and survivor of molestation by a family friend, I've become somewhat obsessed with doing whatever it takes to make sure my daughter stays... Read more
Published on 19 July 1999
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