I have read (and benefited) from many of the the Self-Improvement, Self -Help books on the market.... Kelly has a unique, yet effective style that identifies the issues (obstacles), and more importantly gives specifics to address and overcome them. I read Perfectly Yourself, and followed up by purchasing and reading Mr. Kelly's other two efforts.... they were both of the same quality as Perfectly Yourself, if you have given up on the Self Help industry, you owe it to yourself to give the above title a try, I was impressed. (And as an aside, I have never met the author)