Kelly Marks, who gets spectacular results in her exhibitions with the most fiery and recalcitrant of horses, says the secret is to talk to horses in their own language, establishing a relationship of trust and respect, using considerate and consistent techniques. You will find it helpful to formulate your own 'code of conduct' for your horse and while you're at it, for yourself as well, making consideration a way of life. Perfect Manners starts with the philosophy and concepts behind Kelly Marks' techniques and moves on to foundation exercises and groundwork training. There are also sections on Join Up and Body Language, Training Halters, Biting, Spooking and Shying and the 'Lovely Head Rub'. A must-read for horse owners everywhere. (20020220)
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"I could not recommend a better teacher of my methods anywhere in the world than Kelly Marks." (Monty Roberts )
"Kelly [has] experience, enthusiasm and humour, alongside her respect and affection for the animals...the essential guide for any horse owner." (Countryside La Vie )
"Kelly [has] experience, enthusiasm and humour, alongside her respect and affection for the animals...the essential guide for any horse owner." (Countryside La Vie )
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'Horse Whisperer' Monty Roberts says: 'I could not recommend a better teacher of my methods anywhere in the world than Kelly Marks'. (20020220)
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92 of 92 people found the following review helpful
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If I were allowed to recommend only one book to prospective horse-owners, this would be it. By means of practical exercises, anecdotes and case studies, Kelly Marks takes the reader through every aspect of handling horses with empathy and understanding. She stresses the importance of creating good habits, and sets out her philosophy of training, in which, to use her own words, ‘attitude is everything’. One particularly valuable aspect of this book is the way in which the author explores ways in which problems arise. She does not get stuck, as so many people do, in a kind of ‘single-explanation-single-cure’ rut; instead she explores a variety of possible causes and possible cures. She remains open-minded, and never says ‘this is the only way to do this’. I particularly like the way she stresses that ‘It is so easy to fall into that trap of dealing with the symptoms rather than the real causes’. How I wish more horse trainers would understand this! Kelly insists, and rightly so, on respect for the horse; her response to those who believe horses are stupid because they allow us to ride them is unequivocal: ‘To suggest that if someone is willing to generously work for you they must be stupid speaks more of you as an employer than it does of the employee.’ Quite so.
This is a brilliant book, which should be compulsory reading for every person who trains, rides or handles horses in any way.
30 of 30 people found the following review helpful
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This book is a must! Refreshing and informative throughout - I didn't want to put it down! It's filled with beautiful photos and fascinating insights into the horse's perspective and how we can communicate more successfully together. The way that we humans behave around horses is so important and can affect the horse's views and behaviour - and Kelly has some wonderful advice and observations that are really helpful. She has included case studies and stories from students as well as her own experiences and knowledge. There is so much to learn about these wonderful creatures and Kelly Marks skillfully covers many important aspects of handling and training in a way that really "sinks in". No horse lover's bookshelf should be without it.
23 of 23 people found the following review helpful
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If you have 'issues' in your relationship with your horse (or even if you dont) this is an essential reference work. Giving clear instruction, case histories and drawing on her experience as well as that of her students, Kelly gives basic framework exercises for you to undertake with your horse to improve your mutual understanding and respect. No horse should be sold without a copy of this book in his suitcase!!
16 of 16 people found the following review helpful
By H. Jones
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An excellent book. Once you start the first page, you are hooked. A fascinating insight and understanding of how your horse thinks and how your own actions have such an effect on your relationship. Uncomplicated, well illustrated. If you love horses, this book is a must.
13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
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Loved this book. Helps you to think differently about how we interact with horses. Full of information but Kelly puts it across with humour that makes for absorbing reading. Contains steps that you can work through with your horse to enhance your relationship together. Very much recommended.
23 of 24 people found the following review helpful
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Monty Roberts in a "How to" style. After reading Monty's story, or just reading a little about the modern methods of training horses utilising their own body language, Kelly's book is the one you are looking for to put it all into practice, or just explain to you how it works. Also check out her "intelligent horsemanship" website, nearly as good as the book. Well worth a read and to keep for ever for reference.
19 of 20 people found the following review helpful
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Kelly Marks is an extraordinary horsewoman. She communicates simply, succinctly and with a sense of humour, how to set about training your horse. I have followed the methodology she has proposed and find that it illuminates an otherwise treacherously dim path.
I could not recommend a better book anywhere. I've worn mine out completely.
I could not recommend a better book anywhere. I've worn mine out completely.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
By Clippi
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A super book that guides you through getting a better relationship with your horse. If you want to communicate with your horse this is the book for you. The exercises are great and the case studies really benefical
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Makes you think again.
I purchased this book after it being recommended to me. I was having some leading issues with my large bolshy cob and this book has really helped. Read more
Published 23 days ago by Alison
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Brilliant
This book is excellent and very thought provoking. Having met Kelly and Monty recently I am completely in awe of them.
Published 3 months ago by jacob
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Helpful, good book
Helps gives you confidence and understanding of how to behave around your horse. It is good down to earth advice.
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Kelly Marks makes everything regarding horsemanship spring off the page. This book is so readable I could not put it down. Read more
Published 5 months ago by willomjasphen
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For every horse lover that wants to enjoy being with horses more.
After buying the booklets on bonding, and leading and loading, I wanted more information, so I bought Perfect Manners and Perfect Partners. Read more
Published 11 months ago by Mrs. Kb White
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a good read
A good book for broadening understanding of horse behaviour which is never a bad thing also some handy observations which again broadens knowledge
Published 12 months ago by s price
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Excellent addition to horse lovers library
Kelly Marks writes this book as though she is chatting to a good friend. Her warmth and wish to expand everyone's knowledge and understanding is obvious throughout this book. Read more
Published 18 months ago by kathleen
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Perfect Manners
Pretty good but possibly a bit too much preamble. I wanted help with a horse who isn't naughty but needs a bit of positive re-inforcement. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Hattie
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Excellent book
I bought this book a few years ago and have referred to it many many times - I've even bought a replacement when I loaned it to a friend and it was never returned. Read more
Published on 24 May 2011 by LuckyRed
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Just the job for getting the best out of your horse.
Great book - helps you understand how to bond with your horse/pony without the pain! Also, a great idea for a present to a 'horsey' partner or friend.
Published on 29 April 2010 by The Earwig
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