I came across this book when facing grief in my own life, and would recommend it to anyone going through the same. It is straightforward and to the point-most of it is easily understood, and gives much food for thought, and it is a great help with the range of difficulties faced at this time. I wouldnt suggest you use it as the sole source in a time of grief; although extremely helpful it can be a little dry- I might suggest some of the work of Eckhart Tolle at some point, when you're ready for it. When the grief is new, though, it is just what you need.