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With detailed descriptions of the four stages of sexual addiction, the author outlines the dynamics of dependency and offers evaluation methods and solutions. The text addresses issues relating to behaviour, cultural standards, legal consequences, the victim, and public opinion.
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43 of 44 people found the following review helpful
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This book is truly a revelation - from the very beginning it makes the reader face up to the true nature of sex addiction - and to discover whether or not they are an addict. It not only shows the outward signs of addiction (and their inevitable disastrous results) but goes beneath the surface to show the underlying core beliefs that support and reinforce the addiction.
Using true to life stories (an amalgam of others experiences) it leads the addict through a gentle path of understanding through to ways of moving forward to healing.
In addition to the addict themselves, it casts light on the role of the "co-dependent" - (this can be partner, spouse, parent or any other family member whose life has been bound up to that of the addict) and explains in simple language how this has occurred and what to do about it.
One small complaint about the writing style is that there are some dull clinical parts - the author is, after all a clinician - and it does become a bit repetitive at times.
Having said that, if you feel you might be a sex-addict or in a close bond with one, then this is a great starting point for healing the addiction and the co-dependency.
Thank you for reading this review, I hope you find it helpful and true to the book when you read it for yourself.
28 of 29 people found the following review helpful
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Carnes has completely captured the mind of the sexual addict in minute detail. Disecting each and every action and thought explaining the reasons for and behind the behavior. For 22 years I lived and was married to a sexual addict and didn't know. I was in total denial. Finding out was the biggest shock and not knowing what to do. I was fortunate enough to be told about Patrick Carnes' book. I purchased the book online (so I wouldn't suffer the embarrassment of asking for it in a bookstore) and couldn't put it down. To be able to understand in a small way the "why" of my husbands behavior allows me to not feel so guilty or in some way responsible for his behavior. I never thought a book on this subject could be called fascinating--but it is just that. Each and every paragraph had something in it that hit home. He completely is able to analyze this behavior and explain the reasons without making the addict or co-addict feel less of a person. Although my husband and I are separated, I plan on passing this book on to him as he feels he can't beat this addiction. I am hoping this book will help him as it did me, to understand.
17 of 18 people found the following review helpful
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I am a professional psychotherapist and have been treating sexual addiction for over 11 years. For all of this time, I have recommended this book as a starting point for understanding the addiction-for both the addict and co-addict. It is a good idea to read this book prior to starting therapy, or as an adjunct to a self-help recovery program. If you are unsure if you, or a loved one, suffers from this addiction, this book will help answer that question.
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Out of the Shadows
This is pretty much recognised as the standard text about sex addiction. It is hugely informative, but brace yourself, it is a grim read. Read more
Published 9 months ago by skw
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Very insightful book
This book is invaluable for the sex addict and their partner. Page after page will resonate but prepare yourself for a journey!! Read more
Published 11 months ago by lofalof
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"Out of the Shadows" by Patrick Carnes is one of the best books on sexual addiction. Carnes says sexaholism transcend personality, gender, and socio-economic status. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Niki Collins-queen, Author
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Extremely helpful and groundbreaking
I recommend this book to anyone and everyone who suffers from any type of sexual addiction, or is a family member or close friend of one. Read more
Published 21 months ago by pikku kyy
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interesting but dogmatic
Until the latter end of the 20th century it was a given among the American psychiatric community that homosexuality was pathological, and that all gays were, in fact, miserable. Read more
Published on 3 Jan 2011 by John Davison
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I bought this book thinking it maybe not be able to help fully, as I didn't realise I was an addict beforehand. Read more
I bought this book thinking it maybe not be able to help fully, as I didn't realise I was an addict beforehand. Read more
Published on 1 Jan 2011 by Adrian
4.0 out of 5 stars
Helpfull book!
This book is good in the explaination and the psychological analysis of this addiction. I know there are still many skeptics out there, but sexual addiction is still a taboo... Read more
Published on 18 Mar 2010 by read4life
4.0 out of 5 stars
Isolates the problem, and hints at the solution
This book has been great for me to get a better understanding of what I am going through. But with most therapeutic approaches it focuses more on the problems and not on the... Read more
Published on 5 Nov 2009 by jhonnyrocket
4.0 out of 5 stars
A helpful insight into the mind of a sex addict
I am now divorced from my husband who is still a sex addict. This book has helped me understand the how and why of his behaviour. Read more
Published on 6 April 2002
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Excellent, broad introduction to mind of the sex addict.
"Out of the Shadows" offers an introduction to and an exploration of the profile, behaviors and motivations of the sex addict. Read more
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