This was a great read. Not a huge big thick tome, I got through the lot in a couple of days. This was largely due to the author's easy, laid back style which seemed catching, as rather than making me feel stressed and wound up (which happens when I read most wedding planning books), it actually made me feel calm, have a laugh, and as if everything would be fine.
The author reiterates the point throughout the book, that so long as at the end of the day, you and your partner are married, happy, and no one has been grievously injured, the wedding was a success. All the rest are bonus details, and ultimately trivial. In 25 years, people will remember if you looked happy and if they enjoyed themselves, not if the tabelcloths matched your dress or if the food was lukewarm or piping hot.
I enjoyed reading all about the author's own journey through wedding plannning, as well as her hints and tips and words of wisdom from other brides. I have to disagree with another reviewer here who said she felt that she had to justify wanting a reasonably traditional wedding and that she wondered why the author got married at all. I think this is massively missing the point of the book. It's quite clear WHY the author wasn't sure baout getting married herself (she doesn't go on about being opposed to marriage at all..just SOME of the traditions associated with it) and why she decided to wed her partner, and she also makes it quite clear that whether your wedding is ultra-traditional or very offbeat and anywhere in between is totally fine - provided you and your partner are having the wedding you want, for your own reasons.
A must read for anyone a little bit different and sickened by the contents of most bridal magazines.