Your first how to-book should be any of the many generic How to Write a Novel -books out there. I won't recommend any, because most of them are fairly good and none of them contains everything you need to know.
Your second book should be Self Editing for Ficiton Writers. Excellent advice, with lots of examples. Better that The First Five pages.
Your third book should be on whatever aspect of novel writing you are struggling with. Plot, characters, dialog... If you are interested in writing better scenes, this book should be your third one.
It goes deep into how a good scene is crafted. The author explains how you misdirect the reader to think the scene is about one thing and then sneak in a piece of exposition without being caught. Or how you make sure that you always have a setup and a payoff in every scene. How you always should carefully choose where the scene takes place. As an example, if there is a dialog taking place in the airport, why not change the setup so that the dialog takes place in a traffic jam on the way to the airport, with the added suspense, will they arrive on time? The author advices how to locate the hotspot in each scene and then work backwards from that to build anticipation.
This is by no means the only book you'll need, but definitely one of the better ones.