When I discovered that my husband was having an affair with a so called "friend", I was devastated - I felt angry, betrayed, stupid, jealous, frightened and overwhelmed. After much soul-searching, we decided that we wanted to try and rebuild our marriage. But never having gone through this before, we were at a loss as to how to go about it. Both of us have issues that need to be dealt with. This book is my bible. I have read a few articles on-line, but this book has by far been the most helpful. I too have gone through with a highlighter, so that my husband and I can read together pertinent extracts, to help us move on.It takes a sympathetic, yet practical "self-help" approach to the horrible situation that a couple find themselves in during the fallout after discovery of an affair.Well-written, with case examples that are easy to identify with, it takes you through a step-by-step guide to overcoming inevitable problems. It has made me come to terms with my emotions, and has helped us both look deeper at ourselves and our marriage. I am convinced that we will come back stronger and closer thanks to this book. If you are going through, or are on the brink of such a journey, please read this book. It's the only one you'll need.