This book will make you laugh, and then make you think really deep thoughts, often at the very same time. Bergman says some really profound things about gender. Zis essay about New Years shows how ze handled a bad situation brilliantly with positive actions that taught everyone involved a valuable lesson, including the reader. I might be biased because I'm transgender myself, but this book has things to teach anyone who not only wants to learn about what it means to be transgender, but what it means to be human, as well.