This book has changed my views on my relationship with my mother and my view of myself - the title should have told me it might! After this book I am determined that my life WILL be different. A strong believer that your parents, if they love you, just do the best they know how to, I had stuggled with anger and resentment for many years, as depression. Now I can at least understand where my anger comes from, and how it came about. This means I can move on, without the need to blame either myself or my mother. Such a brilliant book. Thank you Nancy!