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Philip Roth
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6 Oct 2005

A fiction-within-a-fiction, a labyrinthine edifice of funny, mournful, and harrowing meditations on the fatal impasse between a man and a woman, My Life as a Man is Roth's most blistering novel.

At its heart lies the marriage of Peter and Maureen Tarnopol, a gifted young writer and the woman who wants to be his muse but who instead is his nemesis. Their union is based on fraud and shored up by moral blackmail, but it is so perversely durable that, long after Maureen's death, Peter is still trying - and failing - to write his way free of it. Out of desperate inventions and cauterising truths, acts of weakness, tenderheartedness, and shocking cruelty, Philip Roth creates a work worthy of Strindberg - a fierce tragedy of sexual need and blindness.

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  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Vintage; New Ed edition (6 Oct 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0099515318
  • ISBN-13: 978-0099515319
  • Product Dimensions: 12.8 x 2.5 x 20 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 425,115 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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A scalding, unique addition to the lasting literature about men and women (Newsday )

A very grand work...in invention, in perception...in coming to grips with the wild inconsistencies of life and art (New Yorker )

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'Roth's best... No writer alive can sustain a full-length novel at as high a decibel level as Philip Roth' Newsweek (20050107)

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7 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars The act of writing 'personal' fictions 5 Aug 2002
Format:Hardcover
Well this IS a fascinating book for many reasons. The book is in two parts "Useful Fictions" and "My True Story". It is not a conventional sequential autobiography. The author takes different routes to tell a story of conflicting egos

If you want to know more about the writer's early life and the consequent mind set which informed early fictions then this is definately worth reading.

As a training aid for writers its also a good read because Roth shows how fictions are constructed from life. Events and names are changed, written and rewritten illustrating a conflation between art and life, with recurring themes of subjective difficulty and intractability.

Description of the early creative writing course are interesting for their honesty, and as the setting from which the authors problematic relationships originate.

How to communicate personal and private conflict is at the heart of this book. It is at times both erotic and depressingly frank.

Apart from the magnitude of the human dilemma which the author describes I take to two things from this book "Stick to what you know" Roth wills his creative writing class and "ANYONE IN THIS CLASS CAUGHT USING HIS IMAGINATION WILL BE SHOT" ..... The point being that Roth rarely if ever gets caught. A great book

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4.0 out of 5 stars My Life as a Man 22 Oct 2007
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'I could be his Muse, if only he'd let me.'
- An entry from Maureen Tarnopol's diary

Peter Tarnopol has recently battled his way through a horrific marriage. As it stands, he still deals with his ex-wife, Maureen, as she fights for a greater amount of his weekly salary, of which she currently receives one hundred (1970s) American dollars from a total that is not much higher. Tarnopol, a writer who initially showed great promise but who, though he writes and writes and writes, seems unable to produce anything of any great quality, still suffers mentally from the three years he was married. He visits a psychiatrist, Dr Speilvogel, and has recently begun a new relationship with the astonishingly submissive Susan, who seems to exist purely to help Tarnopol through his rough times.

He has written something, however. Two short stories, both dealing with Nathan Zuckerman, a character who shares roughly the same biography with Tarnopol, who himself shares a remarkable similarity to the real author, Philip Roth. This novel is the first that directly examines the relationship an author has with their writing and, through the thin disguise of Tarnopol, allows Roth to dissect and lay bare the horror and tragedy of his first marriage, to Margaret Martinson.

Tarnopol's life parallels Roth's in ways that are so similar it is difficult to believe Roth's claim that he does not write about himself. Indeed, in other works it is clear that he has polished, altered, added to and changed the biography of himself from which he draws his fiction - as do many authors. But in this novel, the key elements of each man's life are too similar, too identical for this to be anything but a confession disguised as a, well, a confession.

Peter Tarnopol is a charming, intelligent, witty man who has had remarkably difficulty in escaping the clutches of his wife Maureen, for all that they are separated. Initially successful as an academic and then as an author, the reader is introduced to little scenes and examinations of Tarnopol's life before he fell under the sway of Maureen. In these Tarnopol was confident, clear in his path through life, and manifestly devoted to literature. We learn his daily schedule, his ideas on writing and reading, his hopes for a future that extends infinitely with repeated days that are very much the same as before. There is, of course, a rub: '...at twenty-five, for all my dedication to the art of fiction, for all the discipline and seriousness (and awe) with which I approached the Flaubertian vocation, I still wanted my life to be somewhat original, and if not violent, at least interesting, when the day's work was done.' And there is his downfall. Tarnopol's methodical, orderly life is shattered by the addition of someone who is not orderly, who will not allow themselves to become trapped into the compartmentalised structure that is Tarnpol's life.

And who can blame Maureen? It is of course important to remember, as it is with any story recounting a divorce, that the person telling the tale is somewhat biased. For all their good intentions - and it seems that Tarnopol does not have good intentions so much as he wants to rid himself of the difficulty of his late twenties life through the cleansing burn of cathartic revelation - the divorcee, the divorcee, the separated, the broken-hearted - their story is tainted by a desire to show themselves in a better light than the other person, whomever they may be. It is to the credit of Tarnopol, however, that in his confession he does not stray from revealing the negatives of his own personality, though one of course must wonder if this is what he did reveal, what behaviour did he leave to rot in the dark corners of the relationship?

There is a sense that what Tarnopol wants is not life but literature. Flaubert and Tolstoy are referred to most often, with plenty of other authors scattered throughout. Tarnopol is a writer in the sense that he cannot seem to allow himself fully into the world of the non-writers. He is bewildered, bemused, confused, destroyed, caught up in and thrown about by life, when all he wants to do - professes to do - is write. Then write, Tarnopol! Yet it is of course the inexorable pull of 'reality', the 'real life' that everyone else seems to have, that draws him from this shell of literature-as-everything to life-as-something, even if his life turns out wrong.

It goes without saying that if the character of Tarnopol is not liked, then the novel will not be enjoyable. Indeed, there is nothing to this novel without Tarnopol. This novel is Tarnopol, in every sense of the term. This is the greatest strength of the work if Tarnopol's charm is received well, but if the reader finds him insufferable, then the novel fails. The plot is slim, and is written with a jumping back and forth style that sometimes comes across as overly complicated. As is often the case with Roth's work, if the story was told in a strictly chronological order it would be a) Not a Roth novel and b) Not particularly interesting.

As mentioned, Roth's own life parallels - or more accurately, Tarnopol's created life parallels Roth - the difficulties experienced within the novel. Both Maureen Tarnopol and Margaret Martinson purchased urine from a pregnant black woman to trick their partner into staying with them by faking a pregnancy test. Both Maureen and Margaret died in car accidents. Is this important to the enjoyment of the novel? No, it is not. But it is important in the sense that from great tragedy a writer - in every sense of the Flaubertian term - can emerge. Roth - and, we presume, Tarnopol - managed to rise from the ashes of a disastrous relationship to continue the pursuit of literature. Lucky for us.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Searing, bitter fiction based on Roth's first marriage. 28 Mar 2002
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Format:Paperback
Philip Roth's sixth novel, "My Life as a Man," first appeared in 1974, after the author spent several years trying to use the material of his first marriage (to one Margaret Martinson) in a fictionalized setting. Readers of Roth's autobiography, "The Facts" (1988), know that his brief cohabitation and extensive legal battles with Martinson were harrowing enough to leave psychological wounds the author continued to lick for decades following her death in a car accident. "My Life as a Man," according to "The Facts," was a book that took an enormous toll, both artistic and emotional, on the author. But it's a good thing he was able to write it, because what we have is a tremendously gripping, chilling, bitter and often hilarious look at the dark side of "romantic" relationships.

The first section of the book, entitled "Useful Fictions," includes two stories "by Tarnopol" documenting his carefree childhood and eventual entanglement with the psychopathic "Lydia." Then the novel itself starts, under the title "My True Story." What follows is enough to make anyone feel fortunate for a) being single or b) having a stable relationship. Martinson, who was "Lydia" in the first section, is here renamed "Maureen," and is one of the most unforgettable women in American literature. Self-loathing, neurotic, violent, manic-depressive, grasping, hateful and literally insane, her relentless attempts to control and keep "Tarnopol" (Roth) are what gives these pages such intensity. Her hatred for Tarnopol and his hatred for her make this book unputdownable. Reading "The Facts," one learns that much, if not most, of what occurs here actually took place in real life. No wonder Roth has "women issues" (or so the critics always say).

This remains one of Roth's most intelligent, finely crafted books. His use of dialogue is virtually unparalleled in modern fiction, and his sentences are as chiselled and graceful as one would expect of an artist of his caliber. In short, "My Life as a Man," though not the most uplifting book of our time, is an extraordinary (and extraordinarily bleak) accomplishment.

10 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Unsparing, ambitious, funny but also bitter and obsessive. 25 Oct 1999
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Roth's considerable abilities are clearly in evidence here: narrative force; powerful intelligence; an unblinking examination of the human heart and mind; an unsparing honesty. But so too are his weaknesses: a truly obsessive concern with men-women relations; an unmistakably bitter tone when he speaks about women; a story that in the end succumbs to its obsessions and anger rather than transcends them, or even finds a feasible accomodation. The endless, fruitless, explorations of the protagonist's pysche finally become too much for the reader; the work begs to be shortened. Still,there are many fine, perceptive (and funny) moments in this book. Roth, even not at his very best, demands reading and consideration.
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Marital Nightmare 2 Dec 2007
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I would not recommend this book as a gift for newlyweds or those contemplating entering marriage. One might read this tale wondering why anybody would ever marry. The fact that this story is based on Roth's first marriage gave me a certain feeling of discomfort. And while I may gape at the terrible car wreck on the highway, I still do not feel a sense of bliss about it. In the same way, I have trouble taking pleasure in Roth's pain.

"My Life as a Man" is a unique work of fiction that begins as a work of fiction by the main character. It then evolves into the "real" events that inspired the character to write his story. Both stories show the main character trapped in a nightmarish marriage. In the "real" story, Peter Tarnopol's story is more unnerving. No reasonable means would cause his wife to agree to a divorce. At points, it causes Peter to evolve into the same frightening psychopath that his wife already was. Had Tarnopol not told us so early in the story, the reader can easily forsee the marriage only ending in death.

Although this may be a work of fiction, the knowledge that it is based on the real life experience of an author that I enjoy is a little disturbing. This may have something to do with why this is one of the few Roth novels that I have had trouble enjoying. Readers should not judge Philip Roth on this work. I would recommend Portnoy's Complaint and The Plot Against America.
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