I came to this book having read several others along with articles and other publications that address the topic of small groups. While I have been aware of some of the elements mentioned in the book, I never understood them within the framework provided by the author. This book challenges the common assumptions concerning the nature and purpose of small groups. The biggest assumption is that small groups comprise a "program" or "ministry" of the local church alongside other similar "programs" or "ministries" such as the Children's Program, the Youth Ministry, or the Christian Education Department. We tend to think about small groups with a mindset of segregation rather than integration. One result is that small groups become just another menu item offered to people whose plates are already filled to capacity (or beyond).
Throughout the book the author uses the language of music to convey his essential message: We have been listening to and playing along with a particular "rhythm" of life and perhaps it's time for us to learn a new one. Since music is often used to tell a story, Boren refers to four different "stories" of group life. He suggests a progression toward what he calls "missional re-creation." This is where "the gospel comes to life and the rhythms of the kingdom begin to create something spontaneous, unexpected, and unpredictable (p. 44)."
The entire book, but especially Part Two, is designed to be read and discussed along with a small group of like-minded believers. In the second half we are provided with glimpses of what the "spontaneous, unexpected, and unpredictable" way of living may look like. First, three rhythms are identified: Missional Communion, Missional Relating, and Missional Engagement. Then, Boren discusses twenty-one different practices (seven for each rhythm) that will not appear earth-shattering or even new. These practices are common to the experience of most genuine Christians, yet most of us have not lived them out in the missional context. To facilitate reflection and discussion, space is provided at the end of each practice. The author encourages us to respond to each practice by answering these three questions: "What is God saying to me...?" "What does this mean for my life?" "What impact does this have on the way we do small group?" The end of the book includes an appendix that lays out a 13-step process that a group can adopt to determine how to start practicing their new rhythms together.
A picture comes to my mind when I reflect on the impact of this book upon my life. It is the picture of the Incarnation. God the Son coming into our world to live among us in order that we might experience His message of truth, hope, and redemption. This book captures that essence for us as Christ's ambassadors. We are called to live as a community in our world and live among the lost that they may experience the same truth, hope, and redemption.