I have read many books and seen many videos about seduction,some good and some bad. With the advent of the internet and explosion of opinions on different subjects, especially seduction/relationships, it is hard and confusing to know which is the real deal, or lots of made up stuff. As there is no way to know who is an expert, amateur or snake oil salesman (A liar/manipulator). There are no credentials or objective system to say they are good, it is all based on hearsay, especially when it comes to seduction gurus or pick up artists.
With Aaron Sleazy, it is the same, it is just his opinion on how to handle your sex life. He has written an autobiographical book on his adventures with the opposite sex, in Sleazy Stories: Confessions of an infamous Seducer of Women
. Which can be said to be a real eye opener to what is possible. He has also written a free book, debunking the seduction community, which also talks about in more detail what I said in the first paragraph above. You can get this book from his website ([...]).
The main thing to ask yourself before buying this book is: Does it work? Will it improve your sex life? Is it for real? Ultimately, is it worth it?
I believe yes.
Here is why:
1 - He does not promise that you will get all the women you want, or any women that you want. Unlike most seduction products.
2 - He is selling this book at a normal retail price for books, unlike most seduction books. Most books on this topic range from £15 to £70 or even more.
3 - He does not use a long sales page, with lots of sales and manipulation tricks.
4 - he has an active forum, which he contributes a lot to, so if you do have problems, he will generally help you out.
5 - it is based on steps to take, that you can do yourself, with out being fake, telling lies, or manipulating people. It is ultimately 100% up to you how well you do.
6 - He tells a lot of truths, which some might find hard to except.
7 - He talks about everything from the foundations, to mindset, to the approach, to gettin to sex and relationships
8 - This is not the usual dating advice that you normally get, it is different. I would say half between the normal everday advice and the wacky seduction guru advice.
9 - If you follow the advice, you will not get stuck in the friend zone, not be controlled by women, have options with women, have a life outside of women, not be stuck with women you dont truly want, and be on the way to becoming a man.
10 - His methods are simple. Not long, you dont have to memorise lots of stuff. But you will have to grow a pair and handle rejection, anxiety and fear, if you want to get the most out of it.
The whole premise of the book is to be honest with your dealings with females. There is a bit of an inconsistency here. For he does state that you should find change yourself for women (by changing your niche or dumbing yourself down or being indirect when approaching a woman) so your chances go up. Yet this means you are not being honest with yourself, which I believe is the most important thing in life.
It can be hard to accept some of the advice on here if you have not read a lot of seduction community readings. So you might dismiss it, cause it does not fit with your view of the world. But I would suggest you give it a try.
why should you believe me, am no expert on this field. I only know, that in my life, most of the stuff he has talked about has worked in my dealings with women. If you bought one book on dating, i would advise you to get this. The only way to get the most out of this book, is to do it, and you will probably see significant results in 3 -6 months (if you have been hopeless with women). Just like exercising this is no quick fix product, but it will help you in the long term.