I would like to tell Mr. Thomas that I loved his book, and in some small way it changed my life. I've recommended it to all my male friends, although a part of me feels I should also recommend it to all my female friends as well. I enjoyed its honesty, humour, candour and sensitivity. And it gives a 33 year old man hope, hope that one day he will also find love. It also reminded me of what falling in love is like, something easily forgotten when it hasn't happened for a while. Thanks! Nice one Sean! Can I buy you a pint?