It is this kind of book, rather than the contradictory worlds of men's and women's magazines, that we should be reading to promote openness between the sexes. I have always been a little sensitive about what I previously considered to be men's attitudes towards women. Like many women, I had the unspoken fear that men didn't fall in love as deeply as we did and that they were much more likely to be unfaithful. However, reading this book gave me a lot of insights into how men think, and the differences- and similarities- between 'us' and 'them'. This is a book of fantasies- if you're looking for sex you won't be disappointed- but it is also a book that made me feel both less insecure and more understanding. Some of these fantasies are a little shocking, but none of them are cruel, and if you have a particular aversion to a certain area of sexuality you can always skip the relevant chapter (although all subjects are treated with sensitivity). As the author suggests, men really do love women, and for this affirmation alone all women who want to understand men better should read this book.