I'm recommending this book to all my friends, whether single or not. It's fresh, realistic, very funny and comes up with some fantastic insights into why men and women don't see things the same way in relationships. Isabel Losada goes well beyond the obvious places in her exhaustive search for available men (who, it turns out, are not the same as single men). Plus, it must be said, her necessary trials of dating sites and singles events are spot on - carbon copies of my own experiences in fact - and I found it difficult not to laugh out-loud in recognition, while reading Men! on the tube. Anyone who is fed up with being single and wondering why they never meet anyone half decent will get a whole different perspective by reading this. If you concentrate on having adventures and doing the things you love, you may just meet someone along the way, but in the meantime you'll be enjoying Life, not moping about waiting for that fictitious perfect man. I was bursting with positive energy by the end.