Ros Barber's collection is truly magical and her understanding of so many deep emotions is evident. My feelings of isolation have been somewhat alleviated by this collection; someone understands, someone has been there before me.
She uses everyday situations to reveal layers of feelings beneath them. I cannot commend Ros Barber enough.
My favourite poem is Losing It, which conveys everything that is wonderful about this collection:
She's not like the people who lose their dogs
by driving to Wales and opening the door.
She's like the people who lose their phones
in swimming pools, against hard floors,
or into the pockets of handbag thieves,
while the owner was ordering something to eat.
She's not like the people who lose their wives
with a rope, and a hammer, and a carving knife.
She's like the people who lose their way home
with a belly full of vodka on a dark night
two weeks after moving to Poet's Name Road
off something or other. Around here, though.
She's not like the people who lose their lovers
by forgetting dates, and screening calls.
She's like the people who lose a limb,
are haunted by dreams of what it's for
and feel its ache as though it's here,
thick with the usefulness of air.
She's not like the people who lose their shirt
on a worthless nag in the three-fifteen.
She's like the people who lose hope
through a hole in the lining of a favourite coat
though they'd put their name on the think okay,
and were sure they had it yesterday.
She's not like the people who go on a diet.
She's like the people who starve on the quiet.