This video gives no background on WHY you're doing any of the massages. It has value for a basic massage, so if you know nothing at all it's a start. Don't waste money on it if you want a technical guide. In the end, once you know these basic moves, it's the massage oil that does the trick. If the couple is in the mood, you'll have an enjoyable evening and of course, sex... that's why you're buying this thing isn't it? Just don't think you'll work out any other kinks as a masseuse!