I've read alot of sex books in my time and being in early stages of marriage with a small child I knew I had to make some big changes to our sex life to keep it interesting and fulfilling. This wasn't my book of choice, but I came across it at a friends place and was amazed at how accurate some of the things he said were! For instance I knew about the differences between the way men and women approached sex but this book details and explains it really well with some real tips of how to go forward. For me it was just a great assurance that the way I have been feeling wasn't abnormal and gave me some great conversation starters to discuss these topics with my husband. On the negative side this book is really traditional. Although progressive in terms of masturbation etc it really puts the onus on men and in fact if you're a guy looking for ways to boost your partner's libido - this book is for you! If you're a woman you may find some of his advice 'a woman shouldn't initiate to much as it may stop a man initiating' or that 'the colour of your lingerie can tell you man what type of sex you're in for (pink for romance and black for passion!' a tad old fashioned! However, don't let this put you off, there are some great pointers here and explanations of how to communicate better about the bedroom and please each other! Well worth it!