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Vilar Esther
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  • Hardcover: 184 pages
  • Publisher: Farrar Straus Giroux (1 Jan 1972)
  • ISBN-10: 0374202028
  • ISBN-13: 978-0374202026
  • Product Dimensions: 20.8 x 14.5 x 2.3 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (23 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 2,391,029 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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This text explores the relationship between the sexes. Esther Vilar maintains that a man is a human being who works, while a woman chooses to become a prostitute, letting a man provide for her and her children in return for carefully dispensed praise and sex. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Excerpted from The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. Copyright © 1998. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved

Chapter 1: The Slave's Happiness

The lemon-coloured MG skids across the road and the woman driver brings it to a somewhat uncertain halt. She gets out and finds her left front tyre flat. Without wasting a moment she prepares to fix it: she looks towards the passing cars as if expecting someone. Recognising this standard international sign of woman in distress ('weak female let down my by male technology'), a station wagon draws up. The driver sees what is wrong at a glance and says comfortingly, "Don't worry. We'll fix that in a jiffy." To prove his determination, he asks for her jack. He does not ask if she is capable of changing the tyre herself because he knows - she is about thirty, smartly dressed and made-up - that she is not. Since she cannot find a jack, he fetches his own, together with his other tools. Five minutes later the job is done and the punctured tyre properly stowed. His hands are covered with grease. She offers him an embroidered handkerchief, which he politely refuses. He has a rag for such occasions in his tool box. The woman thanks him profusely, apologising for her 'typically feminine' helplessness. She might have been there till dusk, she says, had he not stopped. He makes no reply and, as she gets back into the car, gallantly shuts the door for her. Through the wound-down window he advises her to have her tyre patched at once and she promises to get her petrol station attendant to see to it that very evening. Then she drives off.

As the man collects his tools and goes back to his own car, he wishes he could wash his hands. His shoes - he has been standing in the mud while changing the tyre - are not as clean as they should be (he is a salesman). What is more, he will have to hurry to keep his next appointment. As he starts the engine he thinks, "Women! One's more stupid than the next". He wonders what she would have done if he had not been there to help. He puts his foot on the accelerator and drives off - faster than usual. There is the delay to make up. After a while he starts to hum to himself. In a way, he is happy.

Almost any man would have behaved in the same manner - and so would most women. Without thinking, simply because men are men and women so different from them, a woman will make use of a man whenever there is an opportunity. What else could the woman have done when her car broke down? She has been taught to get a man to help. Thanks to his knowledge, he was able to change the tyre quickly and at no cost to herself. True, he ruined his clothes, put his business in jeopardy and endangered his own life by driving too fast afterwards. Had he found something else wrong with her car, however, he would have repaired that, too. That is what his knowledge of cars is for. Why should a woman learn to change a flat when the opposite sex (half the world's population) is able and willing to do it for her?

Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities - in fact, they exploit them. Yet, since men are strong, intelligent and imaginative, while women are weak, unimaginative and stupid, why isn't it men who exploit women?

Could it be that strength, intelligence and imagination are not prerequisites for power but merely qualifications for slavery? Could it be that the world is not being ruled by experts but by beings who are not fit for anything else - by women? And if this is so, how do women manage it so that their victims do not feel themselves cheated and humiliated, but rather believe to be themselves what they are least of all - masters of the universe? How do women manage to manage to instil in men this sense of pride and superiority that inspires them to ever greater achievements?

Why are women never unmasked? --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.


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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Hilarious, dangerous, opinionated, but a welcome change, 23 Jan 2003
This review is from: The Manipulated Man (Paperback)
If you read this book, never forget that while Esther Vilar is making a serious point, her tongue never leaves her cheek. If you forget that this is satire (at its best) then you may be tempted to take what she says literally and miss the wonderful humour on offer.

Of course, women are not as stupid or as manipulative as the author makes out, and men are not as philanthropic and intelligent either. She presents stereotypes to make her point that women are prepared to manipulate men to serve their own selfish needs - and the extent to which they do this is substantially underestimated. I imagine that any man in his middle or later years does not need to be taught this lesson, but in her focus on a section of the female population she does not admire, Esther Vilar forgets the many women who genuinely care for their partners and friends (and the many men who don't).

I see many women I have met in the pages of her book. Sometimes I found myself nodding at her wisdom, sometimes laughing out loud at her humour, and at other times sucking through my teeth at the outrageous and dangerous things she says. Men on the rebound from bad relationships could read this and become bitter. Only women will know the true extent of the author's claims about their behaviour. As for her opinion of men, it is refreshing to find a book with the courage to speak of the many positive male characteristics that are so often ignored.

An excellent read - I picked up the book and could not put it down until I had finished it. Entertained? Totally. Persuaded? Much less so. This is a good starter for the man who wants to open his eyes to what is really going on around him in his personal world. But if you want a serious - properly referenced and researched - book on men's issues then get Warren Farrell's "The Myth of Male Power". Farrel's book is just as readable, but backs up opinion with impeccable academic research. Esther - in contrast - appeals only to common sense. There is no substance to back up her views. Interesting and welcome as these are, this is a polemic - just one person's personal opinion.

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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Probably Unique, 21 Nov 2000
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Matthew Campbell "Matt Campbell" (Rochester, NY) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Manipulated Man (Paperback)
This book is probably unique; I have yet to see another of its kind written by either a man or woman, though I am sure only a woman could write about other women with such authority; and what this one writes ain't too flattering! I can see how she got death threats from writing it.

I don't agree with all her observations and generalizations about women. And, I do think that things have changed a little bit since the '70s. Nonetheless, her basic points, that men pay for sex in one way or another from women, and that women use sex as a coin in trade for other things, is consistent with my own experiences and those other men have told me about. I also agree that the only way things will change for the better is if both sexes realize this and move to changed it for real. Otherwise men are left as johns and women as whores for the rest of humanity's tenure on this planet.

BTW, you can't find this book in the US. Apparently it's too hot for American book distributors to touch. So you know it's gotta get into some really juicy stuff. =)

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9 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This book changed my life!, 23 Mar 2001
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I mean it. I found an original edition of "The Manipulated Man" in a local library. I'm surprised that it had survived so long and that some woman had not destroyed it. I photocopied the whole book because I couldn't find it in print anywhere! Now that it is in print again, do not delay! Buy it. It changed my life. I had learned by experience over the years many things that are covered in the book, but it was not until I read the book that everything became clear - everything that women do to men and why they get away with it. It was at that time that I decided that I was going to be one of the people that Esther Vilar dedicated her book to: A man who could no longer be manipulated!
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