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  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Vermilion (4 Jan 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0091856760
  • ISBN-13: 978-0091856762
  • Product Dimensions: 12.6 x 1.3 x 19.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 89,843 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Julia Cole is a BACP Senior Accredited and Registered counsellor and psychosexual therapist. She also has qualifications in EMDR (trauma treatment), On-line therapy and is a Licensed Practitioner for 'Understanding your Eating'. She has worked as a counsellor for Relate, the NHS, The London Haven, a centre for women with breast cancer, and the Royal Navy. Alongside her own private practice, Julia has written for many national magazines and newspapers including The Sunday Express magazine, Bella, Marie Claire, She, Essentials and Femail, and written several books. Her radio and television appearances include Woman's Hour, BBC Breakfast and ITV News.

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Book Description

A self-help book from the Relate relationship experts for people who have not coupled with someone successfully and who wish to find love and enjoy a lasting relationship

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Have you ever wondered why you always seem to find yourself in problem relationships? How come other people seem secure and settled yet you go from one disaster to another?

It could well be that your feelings about yourself are at the root of the problem. This enlightening guide from trained Relate counselor, Julia Cole, shows how self-esteem, or rather a lack of it, can profoundly affect your close relationships. Whether it is due to your family upbringing, your character or your life experiences, low self-esteem is one of the main reasons for relationship failure. Loving Yourself Loving Another can help you improve your emotional well-being. It covers:

-how you perceive others and what makes you choose a particular partner

-how to manage a difficult relationship where one partner suffers from depression, aggression or withdrawal

-how different relationships work: which type can improve your self-esteem and which type destroys it

- how to build strong 'couple esteem' for a healthy, long-lasting relationship

-how to improve your sexual relationship through 'couple-esteem' exercises and advice.

Here you can find advice, self-awareness quizzes and practical exercises to help you improve your emotional well-being.


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3.8 out of 5 stars

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164 of 170 people found the following review helpful By "tracy6865" on 8 Dec 2004
Format: Paperback
A great book if you feel unloved or not listened to, if you have low self esteem and blame yourself for all the problems or feel you are taking all the blame. I read this book when my relationship was going through a bad patch. It helped me to understand myself and why i felt so low. It gave tips on how to make lifestyle changes in small steps and how to look at problems in a different way to help face them head on and work through them. it made me think about myself and my relationship and how small changes could make such a big difference, It also helped me to realise how lucky i was and things were not as bad as they felt once i tackled my own low self esteem. A very easy read.
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23 of 25 people found the following review helpful By kellz on 21 Dec 2008
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Obviously, having low self esteem can take it's tole on people and this book really points that out. Even before you get into a relationship, your low self esteem can sabatoge it. It's so true and so insightful that I was really amazed at how this can effect someone. A really good book, along with How To Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve.
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11 of 13 people found the following review helpful A Kid's Review on 23 May 2010
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I personally am going through a divorce, the relationship suffered from esteem problems, after reading this book, I have realised where things went wrong and it has helped me to move on. Its an easy read, but dont do that all at once, I suggest that you read only a chapter at a time and then reflection, it works.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By matchstick legs on 24 April 2014
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I like to read books on Self-esteem and this one didn't disappoint me. There are some interesting new things in it.
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By Amazon Customer on 9 Jan 2014
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The book is written in a bit depressing approach and it is also patronising. I would not recommend it. There are other much better self help books in this field
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By Mandy Bediako on 23 Dec 2013
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I found this book very helpful and after reading this bought others from the relate collection. Excellent read and some great tasks.
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