How do you fall back in love? This was the underlying problem of one in four couples seeking help from relationship therapist Andrew G. Marshall. They described their problem as: 'I love you but I'm not in love with you'. Noticing how widespread the phenomenon had become, he decided to look more closely. Why were these relationships becoming defined more by companionship than by passion, and why was companionship no longer enough? From his research Andrew has devised his own unique programme. By looking at how a couple communicate, argue, share love, take responsibility, give and learn he offers in seven steps a reassuring and empowering map for how two individuals can better understand themselves, strengthen their bond and recover that lost magic.
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'It addresses this problem with sensitivity, depth and intelligence, with advice on how to recreate intimacy while retaining a sense of self. Marshall firmly believes that falling out of love does not mean the end of a relationship. His insightful advice makes it hard to disagree' Psychologies Magazine
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Andrew G. Marshall is president of the British Men's Counselling Association and the author of the play Coming Round Again. This is his first book. Andrew currently lives in Leeds.
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By Mintcake
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It occurred to me that rather than reading books about how to break up 'successfully' (whatever that means!), perhaps I should buy a book reflecting the situation hubby and me found ourselves in. Rings off, house for sale - such a labryinth of unhappiness, just awful. This book is a breath of fresh air and like nothing I have read before - it definitely told me lots of new stuff. It was like it was written for us - reflecting what we were going through and most importantly helped me to understand some of the reasons why we had got there and how to CHANGE those reasons I could and ACCEPT those reasons I couldn't. This book made an immediate impact and just 2 months later we celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary by putting our rings back on. One of the 'best buys' of my life.
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By Susan
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I think the government and World Health Organisation should make this book mandatory reading for anyone and everyone before they are allowed to enter into a relationship, to prevent the unenlightened from knacking their relationships without even realising what they're doing. This is like a long lost essential instruction manual, when you read it, you think "Hells teeth! Why couldn't I have read this before I did that!". This book gives great insight into the different stages of relationships, what's normal when, and I SO wish I'd read this book ten years ago! No matter what state your relationship's in, from rainbows and butterflies to copious amounts of wailing, chocolate and alcohol, I'd imagine most folk would benefit from reading this book, and if the worst has happened, it will help you to come to terms with the situation, and possibly promote self awareness, which can only be for the good. BUY IT IMMEDIATELY AND SAVE YOURSELF MANY YEARS OF ANGUISH! Insist that all your children read it, and don't let them start dating unless they have.
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By tattie
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I highly recommend this book to anyone who is in a relationship, would like to be in a relationship, thinking of leaving their present relationship for a "better" one or because they feel things would be easier on their own. It is the essential guide to Relating. Reading it and following the guidelines will ensure that you interact with your lover (and other people in your life) in an emotionally clean way - and that is so much easier than bludgeoning your lover with your baggage or being bludgeoned by theirs. Sublime.
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Thought provoking and insightful. A quick book to read and one you can keep and refer back to if necessary. A good buy.
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Great for Marriages
A great book. Have had a tough time in my marriage and this book made me realise that it was ok to feel the way I feeling and that the issues in my marriage could be dealt with. Read more
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What can I say, I purchased this because we needed to talk, and couldn't find a way through the 'thick mud of life'. This book saved our marriage!
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I love you but I'm not in love with you.
The title of the book is "I love you but I'm not in love with you". This very phrase was used by an ex-girlfriend when she broke up with me, so when it caught my eye on... Read more
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Has some great ideas
I found that this helped my husband the most - he seemed to take it all in and I saw a change very quickly. Read more
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Brilliant!!!!!!!
They should make this compulsory to anyone embarking in a relashionship!!!!
So useful , I wish I knew about it long time ago!!!!
So useful , I wish I knew about it long time ago!!!!
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I love you but I am not in love with you
This book was so helpful, and I wish I had seen it a year ago when my husband first said that to me. Read more
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great book
I havely been with my husband for 22 years and am in no way considering ending our relationship but inevitably things change, life gets in the way and you can't have butterflies... Read more
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Very basic advice dressed up with words the author has made up to make himsef sound innovative. Can't believe i fell for it from reading the sampe. Read more
Very basic advice dressed up with words the author has made up to make himsef sound innovative. Can't believe i fell for it from reading the sampe. Read more
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What an absolute eye opener.
Brilliant book. This book is a must read for couples. Honestly. Even if you don't have any problems yet. Helped me with directions.
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