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'It addresses this problem with sensitivity, depth and intelligence, with advice on how to recreate intimacy while retaining a sense of self. Marshall firmly believes that falling out of love does not mean the end of a relationship. His insightful advice makes it hard to disagree' Psychologies Magazine
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How do you fall back in love? This was the underlying problem of one in four couples seeking help from relationship therapist Andrew G. Marshall. They described their problem as: 'I love you but I'm not in love with you'. Noticing how widespread the phenomenon had become, he decided to look more closely. Why were these relationships becoming defined more by companionship than by passion, and why was companionship no longer enough? From his research Andrew has devised his own unique programme. By looking at how a couple communicate, argue, share love, take responsibility, give and learn he offers in seven steps a reassuring and empowering map for how two individuals can better understand themselves, strengthen their bond and recover that lost magic.
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106 of 106 people found the following review helpful
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It occurred to me that rather than reading books about how to break up 'successfully' (whatever that means!), perhaps I should buy a book reflecting the situation hubby and me found ourselves in. Rings off, house for sale - such a labryinth of unhappiness, just awful. This book is a breath of fresh air and like nothing I have read before - it definitely told me lots of new stuff. It was like it was written for us - reflecting what we were going through and most importantly helped me to understand some of the reasons why we had got there and how to CHANGE those reasons I could and ACCEPT those reasons I couldn't. This book made an immediate impact and just 2 months later we celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary by putting our rings back on. One of the 'best buys' of my life.
139 of 144 people found the following review helpful
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I think the government and World Health Organisation should make this book mandatory reading for anyone and everyone before they are allowed to enter into a relationship, to prevent the unenlightened from knacking their relationships without even realising what they're doing. This is like a long lost essential instruction manual, when you read it, you think "Hells teeth! Why couldn't I have read this before I did that!". This book gives great insight into the different stages of relationships, what's normal when, and I SO wish I'd read this book ten years ago! No matter what state your relationship's in, from rainbows and butterflies to copious amounts of wailing, chocolate and alcohol, I'd imagine most folk would benefit from reading this book, and if the worst has happened, it will help you to come to terms with the situation, and possibly promote self awareness, which can only be for the good. BUY IT IMMEDIATELY AND SAVE YOURSELF MANY YEARS OF ANGUISH! Insist that all your children read it, and don't let them start dating unless they have.
64 of 66 people found the following review helpful
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Unfortunately for me it was too late when the book did arrive as my girlfriend called off the relationship. Much as my now ex thought it was absurd that a book was going to cure everything I found some good constructive advice and our own failings which was that we never argued properly instead tip toeing around each other. The book did reflect a lot that had gone on with us, and i feel both men and women will find something to aid them in their relationship. I particularly enjoyed it as it was written from a british perspective and was more grounded in reality rather than the 'alternative reality' we often see from across the pond. If your relationship is rock bottom try this book for a new angle, it is not a magic bullet just explains that 'smart' thinking may find you a path back to love again. I only wish we were together to tell you if the advice would of worked in practice...
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I love you but I'm not in love with you
I found this book just at the right time in my life. I recommend it to those who find themselves in dark place in their lives. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Angie
useful advice
Easy to read and offers practical advice. I don't usually read this sort of book but I'm glad I did as it made me stop and think about my relationship and how to try and improve... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Lisa
More revealing than an MTV rap video
This book is a really good investment for anyone who has been in a relationship more than a couple of years. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Mark Lillywhite
Excellent book
I got The Speech from my husband and stumbled across this book late one night. It has been very useful and really helps you to look at your relationship from a different... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Murphysmum
Excellent
I found this book an excellent read. Not condescending with lots of good advice - both through stories and exercises. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Marissa
Life changing
I started reading this book with high expectations. And they were met. A book like this should be able to not just make you nod in agreement, but effectively change something in... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Bruno Gomes
This book helped me to understand.
I found this book very helpful in understanding what went wrong with my relationship, poor communication and lack of arguments being the main problems. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Snowdrop
what a lucky find
I only got this book last night and I have just finished it today! It couldn't have come at a more perfect time. Read more
Published 4 months ago by upupup
Soothing voice for a useful book
I have previously reviewed this book and found it incredibly well written and helpful. This audio work is read by Marshall himself. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Dr. Gail Louw
whatever happens buy this book
i bought this book after finding out my husband had been seeing someone else and it was if this book had been written about our relationship. Read more
Published 9 months ago by mandybloonet
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