- Paperback: 322 pages
- Publisher: HarperPerennial; Reprint edition (31 Mar 1988)
- Language English
- ISBN-10: 0060971320
- ISBN-13: 978-0060971328
- Product Dimensions: 20.3 x 13.5 x 2.1 cm
- Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 862,065 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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21 of 21 people found the following review helpful
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Most Triadians (adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents) know that BJ Lifton is one of the definitive voices on adoption issues, and this book is one of my personal favorites of hers. If you buy no other search/reunion book, this is the one to have IMO.
I began my search for my birthmother in 1986, locating her finally in 1997. "Lost and Found" in particular helped me to deal with a lot of the issues that come up while searching, AND once you are reunited. There are even chapters on birthfathers and on siblings, something most books fail to mention or deal with.
It is important for those who decide to search to carefully consider their reasons for searching, and also to think about what their expectations are. If you are not prepared for the possibility of "anything can happen", you may be highly dissapointed or even devasted by the results.
I am glad that I chose to search, it has made my life complete in a way that wouldn't have been possible before I had the answers to my questions about where I came from, and who "my people" were. Though my reunion has had some major ups and downs, I don't regret my decision and I thank BJ Lifton for her insights that helped me get through the entire process.
~Reunited adoptee and adoptee rights activist Still ISO birthfather
10 of 10 people found the following review helpful
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As an adoptee, there are many questions and emotions that one is often too scared to ask or express. Lifton goes beyond the "taboo" of adoption in this book not only with her own experiences, but also the experiences of others. In "Lost and Found", all aspects of adoption are discussed, from all views (adoptee, adoptive parent, birthparent). Reading this helped me understand my own feelings, and to better understand the feelings of my parents, and my birth mother.
8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
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The first book I have read with a chapter on after the reunion. An excellent book with many parts, as an adoptee, I can relate to.
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Lost & Found
Betty Jean Lifton delves into the world of secrets and lies which surround the adoption process. She asks the questions that so many are afraid to ask. Read more
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Being adopted myself, I've read several books on the subject. But this is the one I kept coming back to for all the good and the bad. Read more
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