Living Well: Finding A `Rule of Life' to revitalise and sustain us
Alan Hargarve(2010)
For a little book (136 pages) this one packs quite a punch. Ostensibly one mans distillation of the core characteristics of religious rules of life (both monastic and lay) and their potential application to the life of anyone seeking to follow Christ, this is so much more than that précis suggests.
Acknowledging the pivotal role of the Rule of St. Benedict in western Christianity the author roves over a number of rules, notably those of the emerging "new monastic" communities in the U.K (including: - The Community of St. Etheldreda, Ely Cathedral of which the author is Canon Missioner and also Ely Cursillo Rule of Life, The Northumbria Community, Iona and Moot) all of which are summarised in helpful appendices.
Rather than academic analysis the author seeks essences and illustrates them with his own life and search for a "rule". Anecdotes abound and are relevant, enlightening and above all human. A gentle humour pervades the discussion.
Much has recently been discussed about male spirituality. This book is not written for men specifically but what becomes evident is that it is written by a spiritual man. As a man I found that helpful and interesting, I wonder why?
At the end of each section (all of which are succinct and small enough to make them eminently usable for group work) are questions for self or group analysis. Did I do these? No. Then again, I never do, perhaps that's why my own personal written rule of life is still largely in my head and not on paper,
The layout is untidy and although the author references well (while wearing his obvious learning and wide reading lightly) and includes relevant web directions it is a mark of the text that by the end of it you don't mind because you realise the messiness saves paper and so helps creation sustain itself in the image of God. No small recommendation.
Accessible, readable and tasting of The Spirit, this is one book you really should read.