I just finished Life Outside. I was pressured to read it by a friend who was moved by it and who wouldn't shut up about it. I was very impressed. There's so much here, so much that is important and prickly, the kinds of things people do not want to hear. But Signorile is very talented. He says it with soul and compassion. I was afraid to read the book when it came out. I'd followed Signorile over the years and always knew he was right even when I didn't like what he had to say. He is the gay male community's conscience and people either love him or hate him for that. Witness some of the reviews here. The pretentious academic types hate him. But he's the intellectual of the street, not of the ivory tower. He speaks his mind about gay male behavior, the politics of the gay left, the gay right, the gay community as a whole. He always points to the elephant in the room. That's why I didn't want to read Life Outside. But once I got started I was driven. The writing is crisp and wonderful. I felt compassion and I felt warmth while reading Life Outside but i also know how it could get a lot of people riled up. It's a testament to the book that it is still causing controvery a couple of years after it was first published. That's a very valuable book.