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Letting Go of Shame: Understanding How Shame Affects Your Life
 
 

Letting Go of Shame: Understanding How Shame Affects Your Life [Kindle Edition]

Ronald Potter-Efron , Patricia Potter-Efron
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Ronald and Patricia Potter-Efron define shame as a painful belief in one's basic defectiveness: I'm a failure! I'm not good enough! An overwhelming sense can arise and persist from critical parents, a verbally abusive spouse, racist or sexist prejudice, hereditary predisposition, or from ourselves. We may in fact be our own worst critics.Deeply shamed individuals may experience pain and suffering endlessly, unless the cycle is stopped through understanding what shame is, the sources of shame, and how to heal. Then, too, some people are shame-deficient. They can benefit from having some shame in their lives. At times, shame is good.Either way, Letting Go of Shame provides solutions for personal transformation. In simple, practical language, each succinct chapter explores shame in our culture, in our relationships, and in ourselves, offering exercise and action plans for healing the wounds and learning a new freedom of joy and ease.

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Exposes the source and nature of shame, and helps people heal themselves by looking beyond the self-hatred to locate the self.

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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 529 KB
  • Print Length: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Hazelden; 1 edition (10 Dec 2009)
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language English
  • ASIN: B0030EK4NQ
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #194,932 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
moving on 28 Sep 2010
By frenchy
Format:Paperback
This book has allowed me to move on from childhood to adulthood and live my life in the present rather than the way it was. Things change in life, and I was stuck. It allowed me to develop a better image of myself and realise that I was worth living, that I was good enough, not a failure. You do need to have the motivation to change, this book is only a help to get where you want to go.
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125 of 129 people found the following review helpful
Practical Guide to Resolving Shame 28 Mar 2000
By A Customer - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Paperback
Letting Go of Shame is an excellent self help guide. Each chapter ends with practical excercises. The material is presented in an orderly fasion, working through the issues one by one. The positive role that shame plays is covered, but the focal issue is toxic shame. It is easy for the reader to identify with symptomatic consequences of shame as each source of shame is presented. It is complementary to Bradshaw's classic book on the subject and in many ways is a simpler presentation for the novice. Complex and technical language is avoided. This is a practical self help guide for anyone dealing with the self inflicting pain caused by shame.
16 of 18 people found the following review helpful
Very Disappointing 10 April 2011
By hairballz - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
I wanted to like this book - really. I ordered the sample for my Kindle, which was just most of the introduction and about a page of the first chapter, and based on that it looked promising, though I was concerned that the sample wouldn't let me access the Table of Contents at all. Hmmmm.. Should have been my first clue. My primary objection to this book is that it is just so repetitive. I have to believe this was an essay someone wrote that got "developed" into a book. Every chapter starts with the author spending a lot of time telling you what he's going to talk about in this chapter - VERY little time actually talking about it - followed by a tedious REVIEW of what he just talked about, just in case you missed it.

The "exercises" at the end of each chapter are then - unbelieveable - a FURTHER re-hashing of ideas from the chapter. But to even call them "ideas" is being generous. There is nothing particularly new or even helpful here. A lot of interesting statements that then never get fully developed. I read the whole book thinking surely at some point the authors are going to start fleshing some of this stuff out, right? But it just never happened.

Hugely disappointing. If it hadn't taken me a full week to plow through this, forcing myself to the end, I would have just returned the Kindle edition, but I believe I'm past the Amazon deadline for that.

Lesson learned - if a sample won't let you see the Table of Contents, there's probably a reason for that.
9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
Eye-Opener 14 July 2009
By Brikl - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Paperback
I wish everyone could read this book so we could all talk about this underrated subject! When this book was recommended to me, I didn't read it because I couldn't comprehend properly what the subject of shame entailed. It's fascinating how much it affects us all and how we aren't even aware of it. A wonderful book!
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The third difference between shame and guilt is that the shamed person fears abandonment, while the guilty person fears punishment. The reason the shamed person fears abandonment is that he believes he is too flawed to be wanted or valued by others. &quote;
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Our definition of shame is that it is a painful belief in ones basic defectiveness as a human being. &quote;
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There are important differences between shame and guilt. First, shame concerns a persons failure of being, while guilt points to a failure of doing. &quote;
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