I have a 20 month child who is very excited to recognize the alphabet, colors, shapes, and numbers. With adult supervision, she is able to play with this LeapPad appropriately. To the parent complaining that an excited 3-year-old shouldn't be expected to know not to carry the pad by the pen??? I say that when supervised and shown that certain toys warrant proper care, any age child can play with a LeapPad appropriately. We love this toy and are looking forward to puchasing other books as our child grows older!