I was astounded to find myself connecting very intensely with the main character as I have also lost a child. (I fully expected this to read as a made-up literary extravagance, bearing little resemblence to my actual experiences.) If nothing else, Zeidner clearly captures the total chaos that an experience like this throws one into: believe me, the world no longer is a rational place where our actions or anything else make sense. I refute the statement by the reader who said that it is not believable for a woman to still be acting on such intense grief after 3 years. Three years is not a long time at all after the loss of a child; as a matter of fact, neither is 5 years, or 10 years, or 30 years.