5.0 out of 5 stars
An AWAIR Pick!!!, 4 Jun 2011
By AWAIR Reviews - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: My Khyber Marriage (Adventure Travel Classics) (Paperback)
I read this work years ago, when it was published by Octagon Press in 1990. In this remarkable autobiography with great appeal, Morag Murray describes how during World War I she fell in love with the son of an Afghan chieftain, married him and left her safe middle-class life in Scotland to travel to the distant stronghold of her husband's family.
Stories of her adaptation give intriguing insight into the lives of these Muslim people - their culture, lives and code of honor - dispelling some of the Western myths of harems, brigands, and Muslim women. Murray's openness, curiosity, and zest for life are inspirational, and she describes her adventures in exquisite detail: the luxurious spa-like treatment in preparation for her marriage; a fairytale wedding with thousands of gift-bearing guests spread out for miles in a city of tents; defending a fort with her sisters-in-law during a raid by a rival tribe.
Imagine this reviewers surprise, now years later, when reading a work by Tahir Shah, The Caliph's House: A Year in Casablanca, when pieces begin to fall together. Tahir Shah is Morag Murray's grandson and a portion of his story in this work is retracing his grandfather's last years spent in Tangier. The grandfather (a young warrior in Murray's autobiography) Shah writes about: ". . raised in a tribal fiefdom in the Hindu Kush. As is traditional in our family, he was encouraged to master many fields of study, to live many lives in one. He was a medical doctor and a diplomat, a professor of philosophy, and expert on folklore, mysticism, and political science. He was an adviser and confidant to half a dozen heads of state, and the author of more than sixty books - on poety, politics, biography, literature, religion, and travel."
Morag and Ikbal's marriage edured for more than forty years, until her death suddenly of cancer in 1960. "My grandfather could hardly contain his grief. He vowed that he would not return to any place they had been together, or look at anything that would remind him of his beloved wife. . . Morocco was a country where they had never traveled. My grandfather had heard of the kingdom's mountains, its kasbahs, and the proud tribal traditions. The sound of such a place was alluring. So that summer, he packed his sea trunk with some books and a few clothes and set sail for Tangier. . . and a life waiting to be reunited with (her)."
Here then, in another work, two generations later, I find the end of this love story begun in My Khyber Marriage.
Teachers/Librarians: 7th to 12th grades - Social Studies. This work of authenticity by an insider will hold students' interest. And could be more timely, since the US is in a war in this mountainous area of Afghanistan, among the very Pathan people of whom she shares her life.