The decision to leave a spouse is one thing. Understanding and navigating the divorce process thereafter is another entirely. Each divorce is different. The good news is that there is a general path in the overall process which can be charted. This book will show you how. Sure, you can read a pamphlet or get a free half hour with a divorce solicitor to try to understand what's going to happen to you and in which order. However, without parting with even more money, you may not really see through the fog of the overall divorce process that you may endure for many months to come. Addicted to Wedding Cake aims to signpost the route through the jargon and procedures to the day when your divorce is over. It will explain the nitty gritty and provide samples of some of the court forms you are likely to encounter along the way. This is a guide of how the English and Welsh divorce system works. It's not a guide on deciding to divorce, because that's your personal decision (or a fact if you are the one being divorced). It is about the journey of divorce and will help you to understand what's going on and that you are not alone. Divorce can be an undignified and hollow experience, however this guide will help you to make the best of the situation and manage your expectations.
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If you are at the initial and possibly angry phase and looking for signposting of the proceedings, you may want to skip straight to chapter 2 to look at the divorce process and the paperwork involved. On the other hand, if you are further into the process or considering your options, then you may find the formative and later chapters a good read.
Also, don't forget that your close family and friends may want to understand what you are going through and where you are up to so they might want to see this text to help their understanding.
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Having experienced the process at first hand and having seen the 'financials' on many occassions in my professional capacity, it is good to bring both topics together in one text to detail how the process looks to help manage experctations, both for the individual involved and their close relatives who may also want to understand the steps involved.
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By J. Walker
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Keith has made an excellent job of mapping out the divorce process along with many of the common associated glitches. A complicated and convoluted system is not simple to dissect while simultaneously weaving together various strands in the right places. Addicted to Wedding Cake has achieved just that to make a much needed divorce reference book for men and women alike.
His writing style is easy, informative and light. With just the right amount of humour which never debases, nor makes fun, he creates an atmosphere of understanding.
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His writing style is easy, informative and light. With just the right amount of humour which never debases, nor makes fun, he creates an atmosphere of understanding.
Congratulations!
By Louise G
Format:Paperback
In Addicted to Wedding Cake Keith Churchouse talks from personal experience as he has been through two divorces. The fact he has worked in financial services for 25 years also means he offers authoritative financial advice in divorce situations. The author takes the reader through the often precarious divorce process in a simple easy to understand style. Moreover, Mr Churchouse adds humour to this often bleak situation which means the book is both informative and entertaining. He provides useful insights into the process which any newcomer to divorce will find helpful and reassuring. There are pages in the book for notes so the reader can jot down details of their situation. Ultimately,the tone is positive particularly towards the end where he writes, 'You Will Survive'.
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I'm not getting divorced (though I am partial to Wedding cake), in fact I have never been married, but I was really interested by this book. I suppose it is best described as a layman's guide to divorce in the UK: you can flip to the section that you need advice on or read through it and get a handle on each stage of the process. I have already recommended it to several friends who are divorcing because I really think it will help them.
The whole book is simple to understand even if you have no idea, as I did, of the divorce process. It is full of helpful advice but does not claim to be the all knowing oracle, instead it points to experts who can help in each field. There are, wisely, many suggestions of counselling to help you to get through the process and for any children who may be involved. I thought it was very sensible, and somewhat refreshing, to see the mental effects of divorce approached so candidly and talked about seriously.
The one part of the book that I struggled with was the pensions chapter, it blew my mind! Having said that it seems like an incredibly complicated topic and I think the author did his best to make it as clear as possible.
The tips given out throughout the book are very useful, for example letting us know who wont accept photocopied documents, and would be invaluable to anyone going through the process. The fact that the author has also experienced divorce himself means that he is very understanding of how tough it is and this certainly comes across, the book feels supportive yet firm, almost like a close friend trying to get you back on your feet.
If you, or someone you know, is getting divorced I would definitely recommend this book, it covers not just the legal issues but every aspect from knowing the marriage is failing to moving on after. A definite 10/10.
The whole book is simple to understand even if you have no idea, as I did, of the divorce process. It is full of helpful advice but does not claim to be the all knowing oracle, instead it points to experts who can help in each field. There are, wisely, many suggestions of counselling to help you to get through the process and for any children who may be involved. I thought it was very sensible, and somewhat refreshing, to see the mental effects of divorce approached so candidly and talked about seriously.
The one part of the book that I struggled with was the pensions chapter, it blew my mind! Having said that it seems like an incredibly complicated topic and I think the author did his best to make it as clear as possible.
The tips given out throughout the book are very useful, for example letting us know who wont accept photocopied documents, and would be invaluable to anyone going through the process. The fact that the author has also experienced divorce himself means that he is very understanding of how tough it is and this certainly comes across, the book feels supportive yet firm, almost like a close friend trying to get you back on your feet.
If you, or someone you know, is getting divorced I would definitely recommend this book, it covers not just the legal issues but every aspect from knowing the marriage is failing to moving on after. A definite 10/10.
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" Addicted to Wedding Cake...the Journey of Divorce"
I am recently divorced and really wished that this book would have been available to me at the time. Read more
Published on 25 Nov 2010 by Peppard 1
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An informative read
I've not experienced divorce and never hope to ! I read this book from the perspective of one who is involved in family law financial planning. Read more
Published on 20 Oct 2010 by Paul Gorman
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If you have to go through divorce, get this book
I've been fortunate not to have ever needed a book like this but know plenty of people who could have really done with this book. Read more
Published on 12 Sep 2010 by Tom Evans
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Reasons not to marry
A real handbook for anyone going through a divorce. I cannot wait for the sequel - addicted to alimony - by the ex-wives.
Published on 9 Sep 2010 by Bow
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A valuable contribution
A really valuable contribution to a subject with which many people are all too familiar and about which they often lack the kind of practical information that this book gives.
Published on 8 Sep 2010 by Gus
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Addicted to Wedding cake
I have just finished reading Addicted to Wedding Cake and what a brilliant read. I wish Keith had written this years ago when I was seeking practical advice in relation to the... Read more
Published on 7 Sep 2010 by EmmaWimhurst
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Great Book - Well worth a read
A fantastic read - what I love about this book, it is written from the heart with experience, knowledge and is straight talking. Read more
Published on 6 Sep 2010 by Paul R
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Another thoroughly enjoyable book from a new author
When you read one of Keith Churchouse's books it's as if you are sitting in his living room, just chatting! SO very readable. Read more
Published on 2 Sep 2010 by Mrs. P. M. Hedges
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There is life after divorce
The book was a very practical guide to remaining sane and positive through the divorce process. It steered the reader away from wallowing in self pity or indeed self recrimination... Read more
Published on 1 Sep 2010 by Linda Nandlal
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A romp through the rigours of ruined romance
After reading this I put the book down, gave my wife a hug and told her I loved her. So it has already done at least some good in the world. Read more
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