These are very discreet as they are cup shaped so you don't get that ugly lump on the ouside of your top with other pads. I found the size of these just big enough for me - I prefer the larger pads, especially at night when you are lying on your side and there is a lot of movement. However, what really let these down is the lint that comes off the inside of the pad and sticks to your nipples! It means having to pick any stray bits off before feeding my baby, which was a real hassle. I wouldn't buy them again for this reason.