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  • Paperback: 174 pages
  • Publisher: Parkhurst Brothers Publishers Inc (1 April 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1935166301
  • ISBN-13: 978-1935166306
  • Product Dimensions: 14 x 1.5 x 21.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (59 customer reviews)
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Title: In Sheep's Clothing( Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People) <>Binding: Paperback <>Author: GeorgeK.,Jr.Simon <>Publisher: ParkhurstBrothersPublishersInc

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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful By Greene01 on 8 Nov. 2012
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I have recently gotten divorced and have struggled to understand what really happened. And why even after divorce my ex was still having an impact on my emotions. This book was written for me. I was blown away by how the author listed behaviours my ex displayed, and with his current 'games' I have been able to identify them straight off the shelf. This book has helped me to understand why I have despite my normally strong character and beliefs allowed myself to be manipulated into doing things for him and believing him to just not understand, or bying into him being a 'victim'. This book showed me just how much of an aggressor he really was. I have been identifying these behaviour of late and not allowing him to manipulate me anymore, and he is behaving like a toddler, but still trying to get his own way, despite me making it crystal clear that this is not going to happen. I feel empowered as I can immediately recognise the strategies he is attempting to use. This book has helped me move forward in a way I never imagined I could. I realised that I had started dating men of similar problem post divorce, so for now have ceased all dating until I know I can handle my ex and am using his reactions and behaviours as my very own therapy tool. This book really has set me free from the prison my mind and emotions were in. Thank you George K. Simon
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135 of 140 people found the following review helpful By OkeMan on 27 Sept. 2010
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This book does what it says on the cover, although perhaps `...seriously manipulative people' might have been more appropriate. Many of the examples are of people who have manipulative characteristics so ingrained in them that they are almost psychotic, many of them falling foul of the law as a result and being almost un-rehabilitatable during detention in prison. But the underlying analysis seems to me to hold good for quite a lot of people in today's society.

At the root of the book is a questioning of the classic Freudian analysis of the human personality as driven a great deal by guilt and shame. Clearly this has been true of large parts of humanity over large parts of its existence, including many people alive today. Traditional upbringing that believes if you spare the rod you will spoil the child does clearly give rise to people whose earliest years are characterised by the experience of being told `no' and being punished when they don't take heed of this. This typically gives rise to individuals who are `neurotic' in orientation - that is, they are predominantly concerned about whether what they are doing is right and/or whether other people will approve of what they do. In some individuals this becomes overpowering, and they become unduly anxious and even unable to act with any confidence in society. The resulting stress tends to lead them to seek help, and so counsellors and psychiatrists are often working with people on their neuroses, and this becomes the common framework of the helping professions. That framework has become part of the way all of us try to deal with ourselves and with others, through the publication of popular literature which explains counselling theory to the general public.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By A J Kennett on 16 April 2013
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Having repeated a pattern and just come out of another relationship with a manipulator/cover aggressor this book has really helped me understand everything about my latest relationship. It is all too easy not to see these signs when you are in the middle of it all and I only wished I had read this book four years ago as it would have saved me a lot of energy. It is very true that someone in a relationship with a manipulator invests a lot of time and energy in trying to understand why they behave the way they do - anyone out there doing this - get the book and read it more than once. The final synopsis at the end truly touched me - thank you George Simon for this insightful read
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30 of 32 people found the following review helpful By Laura De Giorgio TOP 1000 REVIEWER on 18 Dec. 2011
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In this small book the author presents through several stories examples through which people may manipulate each other in family and business environments, and then through the tips in the last chapter offers suggestions for dealing with different scenarios. Personally, I liked that "how to" chapter of 22 pages with practical tips the best.

The most useful skills one can develop for dealing with manipulative people seem to be learning to set boundaries and becoming assertive and in that regard other books deal with these topics at much greater length, and I consider them more useful than this book.

Some of the tips for dealing with manipulative people this author suggests are:

- Accept no excuses
- Judge actions, not intentions
- Set personal limits
- Make direct requests
- Accept only direct responses
- Stay focused in the here and now
- When confronting aggressive behavior, keep the weight of responsibility on the aggressor
- When you confront, avoid sarcasm, hostility, and put-downs
- Avoid making threats
- Take action quickly
- Speak for yourself
- Make reasonable agreements
- Be prepared for consequences
- Be honest with yourself
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Ms G A Sinclair on 21 Aug. 2011
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I have been living with in an intolerable situation,with what appears to be with a 'wolf in sheep's clothing'....for over 18 months and have spent so long trying to figure out what to do about it - I did not wish to leave my partner, yet my emotional health has been rocked to the core; this book offers a 'reason' why the verbally abusive situation I have been living within has been going on - not necessarily good news, but I felt able to confront him that I 'knew he was fighting with me on every occasion he was losing the power over his own agenda - one that had never been made clear to me and even though I do not know what the actual agenda is, I am able to see that there is actually a 'war' going on - I see through the abusive situations ie covertly putting me down, countering my words, insulting me and most recently not supporting me when another abusive man spoke rudely and threatenly to me in the street - that made me see alot! This book tells how it is and tells how to deal with it - it will not take away the pain caused or necessarily stop the abuse from happening, but at least with more knowledge about why it is going on, it may be possible to reduce the impact on you, if you are the victim and with any luck you (if you are a victim of these damaging behaviour(s)) may be able to deal with it with an idea of what is actually going on, and if you are a perpatrator of this type of passive agression, may you see the light, when what you are doing shows up in the pages of this easily readable, concise and logical book!
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