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  • Paperback: 432 pages
  • Publisher: Hodder Paperbacks; New Ed edition (2 Aug. 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0340818646
  • ISBN-13: 978-0340818640
  • Product Dimensions: 11.1 x 2.6 x 17.5 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 391,446 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I cannot recommend him highly enough (Lynne Franks in the Daily Mail)

Chuck Spezzano's work is not only spiritual and inspirational, it's also immensely practical ... His books are full of wisdom and no-one can fail to learn and develop from his teachings. (Virgina Ironside, Agony Aunt, Sunday Mirror)

Chuck Spezzano's book is a masterpiece. It is a beautiful rendition of love. I honestly believe your life is about to change for the better. Why? Because you want it to. And, because you hold this book in your hands. (Robert Holden)

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A simple, but life-transforming collection of 365 principles that heal the problems and pain in relationships

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19 of 19 people found the following review helpful By nick.williams8@virgin.net on 15 Dec. 1999
Format: Paperback
Much of what I thought was love I have discovered was actually need and attachment. This book, and Chucks teachings, have helped me discover that real love doesn't cause, but heals pain. This is a truly inspirational book, and I recommend to anyone to support your loving relationships or restore your hope if you have given up on them.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on 24 Jan. 2001
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This book can be read through or dipped into as needed, (or both!). Each concept is neatly encapsulated, helpful, encouraging and full of insight. I reccomend it highly, for relationships and life in general.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Anne L. Hardy on 19 Dec. 2010
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When I read the title, 'If it hurts, it isn't love' I thought - what a load of balls. Surely - if it doesn't hurt - it isn't love! Are you telling me all those love songs were a lie?!!! Well, not exactly. All those tragic love songs are how we are conditioned to believe love should be and our only collective experience of what love is. I feel that this book challenges this 'tragic notion of love' (which is essentially unhealthy, blaming of 'the other') and offers a healthier notion of what love is and can be - healthy! It's helped me take responsibility for myself and not place all the blame/judgments onto my partner or other people in general.
I highly recommend this book.
(P.s this book seems be written for people who are already in relationships. Just to point out that I am single and still find this book highly valuable. As I mentioned above, it helps one to reflect on relationships in general and essentially your relationship to other people)
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on 6 Mar. 2006
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This is a must have relationship Bible ! Chuck has an answer & encouragement for young & old alike. You will not be able to put it down. GET IT .....YOU WONT REGRET IT !
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