Sean P. Curley wants to offer parents who don't want to use religion as a tool for childrearing some other options. Given the scariness that can be seen in some religious doctrines and behaviors, it might be a worthy goal for some families. How good are Curley's suggestions in "Humanism for Parents: Parenting without Religion?"
The book is very short, only 87 pages long, and has 8 chapters with a conclusion and a list of resources. This is a general introduction to Humanism and parenting from a former minister, parent and grandfather.
The first three chapters explain Humanism, how morality should be defined from that perspective, and some basic guidelines and goals for parenting in the modern world. There is nothing really that new here, though if you are convinced that religion is necessary in order to be moral, you may be shocked, but then why would you be reaching for this book anyway?
Chapter four looks at how using traditions can help develop spirituality without the need for religion. Drawing from culture, biological and social development and even some religious practices, Curley offers several interesting ideas, never saying what you must do beyond feed your child's spiritual needs in some fashion.
The next three chapters explain why religious conflicts are problematic for the world and how to explain issues to different age groups. The questions and answers for younger children are good, but I found myself a bit offended by the set for older children when I tried to remember back to my teens and early twenties. I think wider reading and greater exposure to other choices would do just as much good, and this also encourages analytical thinking, which must be part of Humanism given Curley's repeated definition of it.
The final chapter looks at seven contemporary issues: Evolution; abortion; stem cell research; gay rights; global warming; neo-atheism; and theocracy and Christian nationalism. I really wanted more citations here and a deeper discussion of the conflicts between religions and Humanism and between Humanists themselves. This lends more realism to the problems and the possible solutions, plus it could be a great way to discuss these issues with older children and young adults who are open to Humanism or simply a more logical way of life.
I think that Curley touches upon several important considerations for all parents but in particular those who don't want to push religion on their children. Touching, though, is about all he does. Over and over I wanted more citations, more examples, more information. The book is a good start, but it is only a start.