This book is great. It is easy to read, but very motivational. And let's face it - one of the hardest things to do if you're looking for a relationship, is to keep looking. This book explodes a lot of the myths about finding 'the right person' - e.g. 'it'll happen when I'm least expecting it', or 'it just isn't romantic to place personal ads'. Nita Tucker tells it like it is - i.e. if you want a relationship, get serious about it, and put as much effort and thinking into how to get one as you would if you were starting a new business or buying a new house. She tackles issues like handling rejection, being open about wanting a relationship rather than just pretending things are 'great' being single...all in a human and humourous way. There are no guarantees in life when it comes to making relatinships - but with this book, the odds in your favour will rise dramatically!