Divorce, they say is the second most destructive force on the planet, second only to the hydrogen bomb. As a divorce attorney, I concur with this saying. However, there is hope. I began recommending Barbara DeAngelis' book "How to Make Love All the Time" to clients in hopes it can do for their marriages what it has done for mine. The book has simple solutions and rational explanations for the inevitable conflict that occurs in all relationships. We see the Hollywood version of love and don't understand when our "fairy-tale romances" begin to suffer. Dr. DeAngelis explains to us that, so long as we are compatible, we should just work on what we have instead of going out and looking for a new relationship. She explains that all relationships will have conflict. The closer our connection to our loved ones, the more conflict we will have. However, using her techniques, we can resolve our conflict and enjoy closer bonds with our loved ones. She explains that new relationships have less conflict because there are fewer issues and emotions between the parties. While simple and (probably) common sense, this is a startling revelation for most. This is a great book offering hope for our staggering divorce rates. What do you have to lose?