Nick Davies (6' 3", Mancunian, thing about shoes, stand-up comedian) tells us in his book about selling and networking that we make the initial decision as to whether we like someone very quickly and based on intuition. Sadly, I do not like him or his style. I am not really interested if he is 6' 3", Mancunian, has a thing about shoes, and a stand-up comedian though he has told me this sufficiently for it to sink into even my thick skull. His concept of teaching how to sell by comparing selling to acquiring a sexual partner seems staggeringly inept since most people are probably equally as bad at both these activities, perhaps he was being outré and terribly terribly modern.
However, putting aside the desire to hang one on him and the "selling as seduction" shtick he has a fund of very sensible advice if you can just survive through the purple patches. His thoughts on persistence in selling are very much to be recommended and re-read. His dissection of small-talk will appeal to those who find it difficult since it applies the very logic that seems to be lacking in this, to many, non-activity. Even his need to remind us that he is 6' 3", Mancunian, has a thing about shoes, and was a stand-up comedian is part of the imperative to make himself identifiable to those with which he networks. Irritating though I find this it is a point well made; they will forget your name (that is what business cards are for) but not that you speak with a German accent and have one leg shorter than the other, for example.
Annoying as he is, I will therefore give him a point for persuading me. Curses!!!