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If your lover has left you...
If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control...
If you regret walking out...
If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened...
You do have a second chance--if you know what has to come first.
Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered. Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime.
This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works. It has worked for the people in this book. And now it can work for you. Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!
If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control...
If you regret walking out...
If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened...
You do have a second chance--if you know what has to come first.
Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered. Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime.
This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works. It has worked for the people in this book. And now it can work for you. Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!
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Your lover may seem just beyond your grasp, and to pause a moment may seem an eternity; to scream about the grief that has been inflicted upon you may seem the natural thing to do, as if that would shorten the moment, as if that would get your lover back. Read the first page
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Your lover may seem just beyond your grasp, and to pause a moment may seem an eternity; to scream about the grief that has been inflicted upon you may seem the natural thing to do, as if that would shorten the moment, as if that would get your lover back. Read the first page
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22 of 23 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I read this too soon initially, then after a couple of months of separation from my beloved picked it up again and it's much better now with the time factor. There isn't a great deal you'll get from this but the main factors are really important ideas that are helpful to stop you heading in the wrong direction. It won't get you your partner back in an instant but gives ideas on what not to do and how to behave which will guide you along the way. Buying books like this is 100% better than blubbing on the phone to your ex. Absolutely.
27 of 29 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I was disappointed in this book. Granted there was some solid useful advice: That you should show by word and deed how much you truly love your ex and put your own neediness on hold; use positive visualization; don't grovel or argue. My problem is that all such useful advice is presented in a general and abstract fashion, whereas the material that is concrete and specific is severely limited in application. For example, almost all of the couples in the case histories are already seeing one another regularly for dinner and a movie. But Dr. Harris offers no real advice on how to get to that point! What if you are not regularly seeing your ex at work or school or for "catch up dates?" There is an extremely limited chapter at the end, almost like an afterthought, on "Dealing With A Resistant Lover," that needs to be expanded! If your lover isn't "resistant," you don't need this book in the first place. A big chapter up front, on "Sex With Your Ex" seems largely gratuitous. If nothing else, the placement and weight given to these two subjects should be reversed. I'm anxious to try out the good stuff I learned from Dr. Harris. I just wish he had told me how to get close enough to my ex to do that. Sorry, but his advice to send cards and/or gifts at Christmas and birthdays doesn't quite cut it.
15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
this book really helped me in dealing with my ex in the right way -by the time I read it I had already made some of the mistakes that I recognise now as such! -I can thoroughly recommend this to anybody going through a break up and who wants to get back together with a lover
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Sensible and practical advice
The book is full of sensible and practical advice, things that are easy to follow and most likely to bring the desired results. I am already beginning to see the positive results! Read more
Published 4 months ago by wutheringheights
i did not recieve it!!
i did not recieve the book! i cannot write a review if i am unable to read a book i have bought!
Published 7 months ago by beth
it worked for me
effective advice.Even if you just want to calm things down between you and your estranged partner, this will work. Read more
Published 19 months ago by sharri
great book, not to get your ex back but to learn how to love
When I got the book I thought I wanted my boyfriend back. But instead, the book made me to have a look inside to the relationship and to the way I was loving and I was being loved. Read more
Published on 23 Mar 2010
Don't Expect Miracles
This is a very generic and simple guide on how to behave after a break up.. there is no definate way to get your lover back so this may or may not work but the information in this... Read more
Published on 22 Nov 2008 by C. Boyes
Not that good
This book was not very good, it waffles on for pages and pages with unrealistic and pointless examples of how to win someone back from shakespeare and poetry and films, ultimately... Read more
Published on 7 Jun 2007 by a reader
Not a great book
The book is definitely written for the American Market. I found the comments made the author as too generalised to assist me. Read more
Published on 22 Jan 2006
be cautious
This book has it's good points - it explains the differences between the conflicting emotions that many rejected lovers feel, and puts into clearer focus the distinction... Read more
Published on 16 Dec 2005
Good advice about how to get him back, BUT...
Hello,
I read this book about a year ago, after having a distastrous breakup with my exboyfriend. It had helped me alot and I finally managed to get back with my ex again. Read more
Published on 29 Mar 2005
Plenty more fish in the sea
I got this having just split up with someone special. I was fed up with getting so far in relationships and then it ending. Read more
Published on 21 Feb 2004
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