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by Greg Behrendt (Author), Liz Tuccillo (Author)
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  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Element (17 Jan 2005)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0007198213
  • ISBN-13: 978-0007198214
  • Product Dimensions: 19.2 x 12.8 x 1.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars See all reviews (48 customer reviews)
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A brilliantly witty and entertaining guide to interpreting men from a writer and a consultant of Sex and the City, which has become a publishing sensation in the US. A no-holds-barred decoder of male behaviour, this book isn't just about eliminating the bad apples -- it's also about holding onto the good ones. Content: / This hilarious, playful, but honest explanation of male behaviour from a writer and a consultant of Sex and the City, is designed to stop women wasting their time chasing after men who aren't into them, and help them to move on and find men who really are. / The line, 'He's just not that into you', was developed out of a conversation between Greg Behrendt and his fellow female SATC writers when they asked his advice one day. It became an episode which struck a powerful chord with viewers. / The wisdom of the book can be summed up by the following: men don't want to tell women when they're not interested and women don't want to hear it anyway. / Upfront and forthright, the book explains why the man you're waiting for might not be worth the wait or all your excuses. / The book's positive message: It happens to the most beautiful, funny, interesting and intelligent women - it just means that it's time to say 'Next!'

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1.0 out of 5 stars It's just not that simple, 18 Jun 2005
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If I, as a woman, was to say 'All men are the same,' there would be a upcry from men. Yet Greg has sold this book on the basis that he knows what men think as he is a man.

This book takes no account of what stage a relationship is at - if he does not define himself as your boyfriend, he's not that into you - well are we talking about after the first date, third date, third month? He should do all the asking out too, so should be into you even if he hardly knows you.

Thinking 'he's not that into you' is a put down to women. It is saying to me that it's something lacking in the woman. For example he's not that into you if he sees you only when he's drunk. Well clearly it's not good to date a man like this, but not because 'he's not that into you' but because he has a drink problem - put the responsibility where it is deserved.

Also, it does not encourage a woman to take her responsiblity for making the relationship work, you just turn up and he decides if he is into you or not. It does not work like that - relationships take work and commitment from both sides - men and women can wreck promising relationship by being too clingy, too possesive, not having time available, not showing their brillance because of lack of self-esteem, putting up barriers due to past hurt, and infinate number of other reasons. These people are not rare - most people have some baggage, and unless we recognise this in ourselves and our partners, we can go through a string of failing relationships just thinking they all were not into me, instead of looking at the real issues. This may be easier in the short term, but of no benefit in the long-term. It would be interesting to hear from people who used this book to discover that they really were with the right guy.

Finding the right relationship is not just about finding someone who is into you, but finding someone you are into just as much, and a relationship that works on the levels of communication, compatibility etc, and it is the responsibility of both men and women to develop good methods of relating with those we care for.

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30 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Found Mr. Right!, 9 April 2008
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This book is a must read for all women because it is a time saver! No need to waste precious time on someone who isn't into me. With great humor, this book gives me insight that men are clear with their actions. If someone isn't into me, I no longer have to take it personally.

As Greg & Liz's book has helped me confirm that I'm currently with a wonderful man who is really into me, Ariel & Shya Kane's book "How To Create a Magical Relationship" is helping me maintain a loving and lasting relationship. I suggest reading this book as well if you're interested in finding Mr. Right.
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20 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars A good read if you are heart broken, 6 Jun 2007
I can understand both points of view regarding this book. But you need to realise that although some points raised in this book may seem incredibly obvious, when you are going through a break up you are unable to think rationally. You tend to think (well I did anyway)of the good times only and really forget (or choose to ignore) the bad times. That is why this book is a good read, it gives you a reminder of all those bad times and it basically tells you "he is just not that into you". It was just what I needed after my breakup because I did over analyse/make excuses for him when in actual fact he really wasn't that into me. And that was the best approach for me to get over my ex.

If you are really over an ex or in a rational state of mind :-) I wouldn't advise you buy this book because it may just seem silly to you and blatently obvious. But when going through a breakup it was perfect as it was just what I needed to hear.
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