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He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys [Paperback]

Greg Behrendt , Liz Tuccillo
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Book Description

7 Nov 2005

A brilliantly witty and entertaining guide to interpreting men from the writers of Sex and the City. Fresh from helping Carrie and the gang with their dating dilemmas, they've given the rest of us a decoder ring to the men in our lives. But this book isn't just about eliminating the bad apples – it's also about holding onto the good ones.

• This hilarious, playful, but honest explanation of male behaviour from the writers of Sex and the City is designed to stop women wasting their time chasing after men who aren't into them, and help them to move on – and find men who really are.
• The wisdom of the book can be summed up by the following: men don’t want to tell women when they’re not interested – and women don’t want to hear it anyway.
• The book’s positive message: It happens to the most beautiful, funny, interesting and intelligent women and all it means is that it’s time to say ‘Next!’
• Upfront and forthright, the book explains why the man you're waiting for might not be worth the wait – or all your excuses. It’s not that he’s too busy, just got out of a relationship or scared of intimacy.
• It discloses such tell-tale signs of a lack of interest as 'He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You,' or ‘If He’s Not Dating You,’ 'If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk,' ‘If He’s Having Sex With Someone Else,’ not to mention 'If He's Married.'
• Practical advice: reveals how to interpret the ‘mystery’ signals men give off that are shouting the obvious.
• Just like Berger on SATC, helpfully (and outrageously) informing Miranda of a guy she liked that "he's just not into you," this book will show you how to eliminate the no-hopers, and give you the confidence to move onto those who recognise how gorgeous you are!



Product details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Element; (Reissue) edition (7 Nov 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0007198213
  • ISBN-13: 978-0007198214
  • Product Dimensions: 12.8 x 19.2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (112 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 87,990 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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‘My dating bible.’ Now magazine

‘The publishing sensation of the year.’ Daily Telegraph

‘A new dating book, HJNTIY, is taking Britain by storm… The book cuts to the core of men's behaviour.’ Daily Mail

‘Sometimes an idea for a new book is so blindingly obvious that we think we should have written it ourselves. The concept behind He's Just Not That Into You is simple but speaks universal truth about the excuses men come up with to fob off women.’ Daily Express

‘This book, by the relationship consultants on Sex and the City, will be something of a Godsend, as it aims to make life easier for women who want to get past the crappy get-out lines fellas use.
It's wickedly hilarious, and it's sure to turn you into a stronger, better-equipped gal!’ OK magazine.

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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars No More Waiting by the Phone for Me! 4 Mar 2009
Format:Paperback
Like other reviewers, I read this book in one sitting. And I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it! While the message may appear simple - he's just not that into you - it really is amazing to read through this book and have things click in your mind. You can think back to certain situations where you may have made excuses for a person's behavior, their lack of calling when they said they would, their super busy schedules preventing time to spend with you, and you can see it for what it really was - he just wasn't that into you! What a relief.

This book has the ability to give you lots of power. Read it, absorb it and never again sit by the phone waiting for it to ring. There will be no need to wait around once you see the writing on the wall, just move on to the next guy who may be the one who's into you!

This book is well worth reading. Buy it and keep it handy for when you need a refresher course. Be kind and loan it out to your girlfriends who are going through hard times with their guys, they will thank you for it!
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A stand alone spin off of SATC 20 Jun 2008
Format:Paperback
In all honesty I bought this book after reading a newspaper article about the TV show Sex and the City where this book was quoted from. I really enjoyed the SATC episode that coined the phrase "He's just not that into you" and wanted to see what else the writer had to say on the subject.

I have read some of the reviews and I agree with some of the people that state this is not the "Bible" on relationships and does not really cover those more serious and involved relationships, but's it not a one star book. It does exactly what it says on the tin. It gives a wide variety of the scenarios where a woman should really know better and cut her losses and get on with her life.

I found this book made me laugh at both the men in the scenarios and myself when I realised that I had been in several of the same situations before. I was single when I read this so I wasn't really using this a self help book or a guide to getting out of a bad relationship, however if there's one thing every woman should take from it - If he doesn't call you back, it's not personal, it's not the end of the world, he's just not that into you. If you think about, if you were compatible with every one in the world life would be a very dull place...

It's the self help book for those women who are not looking for a self help book. Even if you take nothing from it - it has some amusing parts to it and is written in a very comical style.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars witty advice to change your life 28 Feb 2011
Format:Paperback
I'm quite skeptical of relationship/self help books but something intrigued me about this one. I was surprised by how witty and insightful it is. It basically breaks down all the excuses women can make for men when the relationship doesn't really seem to be going anywhere; i.e. "He's got commitment issues" "He's shy" "He's just been through a bad break up" etc, etc, etc and boils them down to one answer "He's just not that into you!!" The writer, a man, emphasizes the point that if a guy really likes you he will want you to know it and care about your happiness, anything else and his heart is not really into it. Reading this book made me instantly recognise time wasters and people not worth bothering with and my behaviour and attitude have completely changed as a result. It is also one of the funniest books I've ever read, with Greg Behrendt possessing a really sharp, dry wit that makes the whole thing seem fun. Buy this and raise your dating game tenfold!!
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44 of 48 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Thank God, an explanation!! 22 Oct 2006
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
Ladies, you MUST own a copy of this book. I read the book in one sitting and found myself inwardly cringing at all the excuses men had thrown at me that I'd believed (and I really wish I'd had this book a couple of relationships back, I may not have made such a fool of myself!). And also, some of the excuses I'd made FOR the blokes who weren't 'that into me'.

I had never bought a relationship 'self-help' book before but admit I got caught up in the Sex In The City hype when this was released and thought I'd give it a try. Now, I cannot recommend this book highly enough!

It's quite amazing that modern, independent women of the 21st Century are carving out lives and successful careers for ourselves; but when it comes to relationships, we put up with so much garbage. Instead of feeling in control, we feel powerless, unattractive and unworthy.

The only problem with this book is; it's absolutely right. As you read it, you begin to feel a bit narked that in order to find Mr Right, you have to wait for him to come to you. And if that guy you've had your eye on, doesn't call or pound down your door- it's quite obvious he's just not that into you. Isn't that annoying? But he's right. Anyone of us can look back at our previous relationships, both successful and not quite so successful and find examples that back up what Greg says in this book.

It's brutally honest; but Greg comes across as your big brother, campaigning for you, pushing your beauty and self worth and reminding you that you really are a gem. Even women in relationships should keep a copy of this book to refer to whenever needed. It's a gem for any woman's book collection.

This book is invaluable!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Perfection
All of the questions that we ask ourselves about men and about ourselves, the answers are in this book. Read more
Published 7 days ago by Jess
5.0 out of 5 stars Very real read
I see now how I have wasted so much time on men when they just weren't that into me. From now on my dating life will be easier to detect the guys who are interested...
Published 8 days ago by helena rea
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read
I really recommend everyone to read this, no matter if you're a woman or a man. This book is written in a very witty way, yet also touches serious issues. Read more
Published 23 days ago by Lasma
5.0 out of 5 stars This book will change your life!
It was recommended to me by a friend and I was skeptical at the start but it is funny and to the point. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Pen Name
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic
Just simply brilliant!!!! My self esteem has shot up! I would recommend this book to anyone going through a break up, or unsure of where a relationship is going
Published 1 month ago by lisa bird
5.0 out of 5 stars Girls, you will like it.
Single or in a relationship - it doesn't matter. In this book the authors present set of stories and guidelines which any lady will find useful. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Lina
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic
If you need answers from a break up in a relationship and aren't getting any, this is the book for you. I started reading it in my late 20s, on holiday after a break up. Read more
Published 2 months ago by MD
5.0 out of 5 stars Every girl should read this
This book is fabulous - every girl/woman should read it. It honestly would save hours of misery and heart ache. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Life Guru
4.0 out of 5 stars Thank you Greg and Liz!
As I can relate to so many of the anecdotes and instances in the book, it gave me such an insight into how I handled the situation right (or wrong), and what I can do in the future... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Samantha Dobson
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting
Like many others I read this book because I loved the film. Although the advice is sound and there will be something useful for everyone in there, I highly doubt the majority of... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Ashley
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