I heard about this book when a friend mentioned it to me. I had already read a couple of books about SIDS and infant death, etc but my friend thought that I might get a little something more out of this one. She was absolutely right! I didn't need all of the mumbo jumbo and technical terms and how to's, I just needed a book that would help me feel and I needed to hear something that I could relate to - my grief. This book does the trick. It is a beautiful tribute to a beautiful baby girl. Her mother's words are spoken straight from the heart - full of emotion and love - and they spoke straight to mine. I have since recommended it to other members of my support group. As stated in her poem Don't Let The Tears Confuse You... "Don't Let The Tears Confuse You. They are never shed in vain. Some wounds will never heal. But the tears release their pain." Get this book and a box of tissues. You will cry, but you will find comfort in the tears and in the knowledge that someone else could express so clearly the grief and the pain of losing a child.