I am surprised and saddened by some of the negative reviews of this book. I discovered it about three years ago and it literally turned my life around, something I describe in detail in my own book "Teach Us to Sit Still".
That said, it is not an easy book to grasp. Certainly the authors don't claim to have a cure for all manifestations of pelvic pain and it's not surprising that not everyone's condition responds to their approach. That doesn't make it a bad book and it seems inappropriate to become aggressive in response. God knows the official urologists have let us down for decades, yet I still believe they are well-meaning and help many people.
Wise and Anderson have a complex approach to the psychosomatic question. They suggest that many manifestations of pelvic pain come about because of an atrophying of the muscles of the pelvic floor which then pinches the many nerves that cross it referring pain in all kinds of directions. They go on to suggest that this process of atrophying could be brought about by certain compulsive, driven, adrenalin drenched behaviour patterns.
In my case this approach made perfect sense and after years of pain I was able to solve my problem (say 95%) by learning how to achieve a really deep relaxation of not just the pelvic area but the whole body. This was not easy. On the contrary. And it took a long time. It also required a profound change of attitude to work and all kinds of other things. In the end it pushed me toward meditation.
Clearly, such an approach will not work for everybody with pain in the pelvic area. But for me, and I believe for others, it was a successful. It seems ungenerous for those who have not been helped not to accept that. One can only wish that everyone finds the treatment that gets them out of this complex and truly miserable problem.