People with Borderline Personality Disorder experience such violent and frightening mood swings that they often fear for their sanity. They can be euphoric one moment, despairing and depressed the next. They show symptoms such as: a shaky sense of identity; sudden violent outbursts; oversensitivity to real or imagined rejection; brief, turbulent love affairs; frequent periods of intense depression; eating disorders, drug abuse, and other self-destructive tendencies; an irrational fear of abandonment and an inability to be alone. For years BPD was difficult to describe, diagnose, and treat. But now, for the first time, Dr. Jerold J. Kreisman and health writer Hal Straus offer much-needed professional advice, helping victims and their families to understand and cope with this troubling, shockingly widespread affliction.
| |||||||||||||||
 Trade In this Item for up to £1.40
Trade in I Hate You Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality for an Amazon.co.uk gift card of up to £1.40, which you can then spend on millions of items across the site. Trade-in values may vary (terms apply). Learn more
|
Book Description
Product details
Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?
|
Inside This Book
(Learn More)
First Sentence
Dr. White thought it would all be relatively straightfor . Read the first page
Front Cover | Copyright | Table of Contents | Excerpt | Index | Back Cover
Dr. White thought it would all be relatively straightfor . Read the first page
Explore More
Concordance
Browse Sample PagesConcordance
Front Cover | Copyright | Table of Contents | Excerpt | Index | Back Cover
Sell a Digital Version of This Book in the Kindle Store
If you are a publisher or author and hold the digital rights to a book, you can sell a digital version of it in our Kindle Store.
Learn more
What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item?
Customer Reviews
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
80 of 81 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Mass Market Paperback
I suffered from tremendous anger, and didn't know why until I read this book. This book helped me understand why I was always so angry and couldn't control it. I just thought I was a physco. I really was depressed and afraid and that scared me. I now know what I suffer from, and that I'm not alone. I always felt alone, like a crazy person. Now I have some hope, and can face my self and others. This book described me to the T. I recommend this book to everyone suffering inside and notsure why. I was emotionally and physically abused by my father for years, now I as an adult I can startto recover. Please read this book, if you think you could possibly have BPD. Also read this book if youthink you have a loved one with BPD.Because they need your help. It helped me, and it can help you.
75 of 78 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Mass Market Paperback
I agree that this book is well written, but I, as someone with borderline personality disorder, believe that when this book was written, treatment for the disorder was not establised in an organized way. I think this book writes about the disorder as if there is no hope for those who have the disorder. I know that is isn't author's fault. When the book was written, it was probably true that there was nothing to help individuals with the disorder. I admit that this book gives me a good understanding about the disorder, but I am concerned that someone thinks there is no hope if you are diagnosed with the disorder. In terms of treatment and therapy, what the book is telling us is no longer true today. The borderline personality disorder is treatable today.
22 of 23 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Mass Market Paperback
After I found the love of my life, I let her know how I felt. Then the rollercoaster ride started. I saw her actually trying to push me away, while at the same time acting like she didn't want me to go. I was left dazed and confused - until I read this book. BPD is a widespread problem that you won't hear about in the news, and therapists don't like to talk about. This book, however, will help you understand what is going on, and what you can do about it. The authors explain BPD with examples and terminology that anyone can understand. If you or someone you love suffers from BPD, you MUST read this book. You will learn you are not alone.
Would you like to see more reviews about this item?
›
Go to Amazon.com to see all 162 reviews
3.9 out of 5 stars
Were these reviews helpful?
Let us know
Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars
Advised by a councillor
It was good bur contained some v old fasioned ideas. I read it though then gave it to the councillor
Published 27 days ago by Harriet Maxwell
5.0 out of 5 stars
i hate you don"t leave me
yes i would reccomend to any one who has these kind problems.
this book gives the uninformed a much clearer understanding of whats going on in the persons mind
this book gives the uninformed a much clearer understanding of whats going on in the persons mind
Published 3 months ago by peter mears
1.0 out of 5 stars
Out of date in respect to current understanding
The title is good but thats about all. This book is out of date with respect to current understanding and treatments. Read more
Published 10 months ago by frenetic fraggle
5.0 out of 5 stars
Helpful, informative
I have BPD i have only been diagnosed this last year but have had all the symptoms since childhood. I feel this book has been written just for me as it explained a lot of my own... Read more
Published 16 months ago by L. Perriam
4.0 out of 5 stars
Finally something about BPD
I was really happy when I received this book.
It's one of very few things written about borderline personality disorder and gives great detail and advice! Read more
It's one of very few things written about borderline personality disorder and gives great detail and advice! Read more
Published 18 months ago by jadielou
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great little book.....
A very easy read about the chaos you can end up going through if with a close to a borderline personality disorder type of partner. Read more
Published on 16 May 2011 by Sunflower888
5.0 out of 5 stars
BPD Self Help Book
I embarked on reading this book with little hope that it would be of any help but it was actually a book that I feel did make a big impact on my understanding of myself. Read more
Published on 26 Feb 2011 by Lorna Tee
4.0 out of 5 stars
Dated, but helpful
This is an accessible book that explains the experience of a people struggling with Borderline Personality Disorder. Read more
Published on 2 Feb 2011 by Alison Jedrick
5.0 out of 5 stars
great book
as a student mental heath nure this book was recomended by a tutor, its a great read and written for everyone to understand it (old school nurses take note)i had to learn not to... Read more
Published on 18 Jan 2011 by christine
4.0 out of 5 stars
good so far...
Wasn't what i expected but it's a fab book. easy to understand ans pretty good to read
Published on 11 Oct 2010 by Ms. S. A. Holmes
Listmania!
Look for similar items by category
Feedback
- Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?
- I am the Author, and I want to comment on my book.
- I am the Publisher, and I want to comment on this book.
