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"It's painful to listen to yourself, at least in the beginning, but the alternative is endless suffering", says Dr. Lathon (a pseudonym, as are all the names in the book), the therapist of this group. This book is not a self-help text, says author Paul Solotaroff, but a "work of narrative journalism" perceptively documenting five highly successful, tremendously self-destructive people living through a year of the powerhouse theatre of group therapy. With much intense emotional ditch-digging, Lathon teaches the group his vocabulary (pain is not to be confused with suffering) and helps them become acquainted with the texts of their wounds and wishes.
Solotaroff, who was once a participant in an earlier group with Lathon, is an accomplished writer who vividly brings his subjects to life. Their troubles run the gamut of dysfunction, encompassing every flavour of anaesthesia--sex, food, drugs, TV, alcohol, shopping, overwork and destructive relationships. Raw and surprisingly candid, these are real individuals fighting some of life's harshest battles; not everyone survives emotionally to tell the tale. The wealth of surprises and final twist at the book's conclusion will keep readers riveted up to the last page. Whether group therapy is ultimately an effective treatment or symptom of the pathologising of navel-gazing, Group is a powerful narrative of our time. --Fiona Buckland
I recommend it strongly.
While emphatically not a how-to book, only the most defended of readers will fail to find applicable wisdom here. Hats off to author, doctor and most of all to the group that allowed its story-- so credible and so human in its imperfection--to be told.
It's a gripping story. The characters don't so much leap from the page as, through Solotaroff's unerring sense of mood, setting, and telling detail, draw you in to Lathon's crucible of an office.
I know no better way to convey the power of Group than to suggest the ideal cast for Group: The Movie.
Lathon...Anthony Hopkins; Sara...Sharon Stone; Rex...Tom Cruise; Dylan...Tom Hanks; Lina...Sally Field; Peter...Hugh Grant; Jack...Harrison Ford; and The Writer...Jeff Goldblum.
Be prepared to read Group in a single sitting, and schedule time at the end to recover from the impact.
The pacing is terrific and the writing is direct, clear and flowing, capturing both the characters' emotions and the observations of the writer as he follows their journey. The outcome is uncertain so that the ending provides some of the satisfaction of a good thriller, in which the loose ends are tied up, although with several twists (and not all endings are happy).
I bought this book on the day of publication and read it cover to cover in 24 hours, only stopping to write notes on insights that seemed particularly relevant to my own life. And then I read it again - yes, it is that good...
The main quibble I have is the fact that the group is quite non-diverse, all being white affluent heterosexual New Yorkers. Even so, I could relate to them as they revealed their self-destructive problems and pain.
I recommend this book especially to those who are in group therapy or considering it, but are not fully sure of its relevance and value; this book provides a vivid illustration of just how success happens in that environment, even for those who seem to be lost causes.
In summary, a great read and valuable reinforcement of the usefulness of group therapy...
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