The documentary was revealing interesting and funny. It made me sit up and think and then rethink what I was doing to my hair. Relaxing afro hair isn't all about wanting 'good hair', but about wanting hair that's manageable. I'm reluctant to continue relaxing my hair because it does a lot of damage, but whilst there's lots of choice as to what to do with relaxed hair and weaves, options for natural hair are limited and it's true that people's perception of you change according to your looks. I remember taking the elevator at work every day with a guy who never gave me a second look, but on the day I stepped into that elevator with a shoulder length weave, I got noticed! Shame really because I was the same person underneath that weave as I was with the short nappy hair.