If you are the parent of a gifted child, or a child that you suspect may be gifted, then you really should take a look at this book.
This book is written by people who are parents to gifted children themselves, and it shows. Whilst having a gifted child in the family is something amazing, it can also present many challenges and can be very isolating. It is in its coverage of these areas where, for me, the book stood out. Our little boy was quite obviously gifted from a very young age - great we thought! However, as he grew older, and particularly when starting school, we suddenly realised that giftedness really can be a double edged sword for some. Our son has suffered from a few of the more common challenges that are sometimes faced by gifted children such as social problems, where they struggle to identify with and gel with their peer group and frustration and/or boredom at school. As parents, we have also faced the problem of how to best help our child when it was obvious that school, as it stood, was not working for him and it was this that left us feeling incredibly alienated. It is possible to begin to really question yourself when you are simply labelled a "pushy parent"! Ultimately it was this that led me to take my son to an Educational Psychologist for assessment and, it was whilst I was in the waiting room that I came across this book.
I cannot begin to explain the relief that I felt whilst reading this book. I didn't realise just how isolated I had felt as, apart from very close family, we don't talk about our son's abilities at all because it is very easy for people to misunderstand and think you are boastful. So much of this book applied to us - it could have almost been written with our family in mind - and it was great to know that others have been through this before and that what we are experiencing is "normal". Obviously not every gifted child and their family will experience difficulties relating to their giftedness, but unfortunately a lot do and this book offers simple, practical advice...as well as the knowledge that you're actually not alone in this. There are lots of case studies included, which I found illustrated the points very well and there are also lots of references to give you an idea of where to start looking for further information on certain topics, and who you can contact. The section on problems with school, and advice on how to deal with them, has proved invaluable for us and thanks to this book we are setting out upon this new school year with a lot more hope than we expected to. It is possible to browse some of the book up above and see what the chapters cover. However, as an example of what the book covers there are chapters on: "What is normal for a gifted child?"; "Giftedness in the family"; "Giftedness and schools"; "Gifted children with special needs"; "Gifted adolescents"...and lots more.
Of course, reading this book doesn't mean that having a gifted child will suddenly become easy, or challenge free. However, it may well give you some ideas as to how best to tackle any challenges that present themselves and how to embrace the positives that having a gifted child can bring. Highly recommended!