This book is fantastic; academic, well-referenced, challenging, and personal.
I could not have asked for more on the topic. Jensen raises pertinent and interesting questions about pornography, men's use of it, and the adverse effects that happen as a consequence of both working in it and using it (many of which are denied by the industry).
I have heard so many arguments defending porn in my life, and this book proves that I was right to argue against it. It shows that everything I suspected was true. And it's not as though Jensen is simply taking the worst elements and exaggerating them: he states that most of his research is based on random selections from the most popular 250 porn films, and on selections by staff of sex shops which they think sell the best.
As Jensen states, being against porn does not mean being against sex. Personally, what I am against is the relentless "woman as object, woman does what man wants, woman is degraded, woman is humiliated, woman exists solely for male pleasure" rhetoric found in the vast, vast majority of porn. I hate it. And now I am satisfied that I am right to hate it; not because of my subjective opinions, but because of the objective realities that Jensen points out.
I have a feeling that people giving this book bad reviews are perhaps afraid to confront the very real impact that porn affects every one of us -- men, women, pornstars, porn consumers, single, and couples.
These issues NEED to be confronted, and Jensen does an admirable job.
Everyone should read this.