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Get the Guy: Use the Secrets of the Male Mind to Find, Attract and Keep Your Ideal Man [Paperback]

Matthew Hussey
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Book Description

31 Jan 2013

This is the book that single women have been waiting for! Written by the hottest dating coach on the scene, Matthew Hussey, it offers clear, honest and practical advice for women on how to find their ideal man - and, importantly, how to keep him. Using simple steps, Matthew guides us through the complex maze of dating and shows us just how to find the guy, get the guy and keep the guy.

Through his work as a peak performance coach, Matthew has gained unparalleled access into what makes guys tick when it comes to women. He is now using this 'insider information' to advise women who have been unsuccessful in their quest for a lasting relationship with the right man. His Get the Guy coaching events are hugely successful and the glowing testimonials he receives from those he has helped to find love just go to show that his advice really does work.

In Get the Guy, Matthew shares his dating secrets and provides women with the toolkit they need to approach men, and to create and maintain relationships. Along the way, he explodes some commonly held myths about what it is that guys really want, shares strategies on how women can take control of their dating destinies and empowers them to go out there and find an exhilarating, adventurous love life.

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  • Paperback: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Bantam Press (31 Jan 2013)
  • Language: Unknown
  • ISBN-10: 0593070755
  • ISBN-13: 978-0593070758
  • Product Dimensions: 21.4 x 13.4 x 2.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (97 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 2,724 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Matthew Hussey is an international speaker and Human Dynamics coach. He'll be seen in the US this spring on NBC's Ready For Love and is a regular expert on MTV's Plain Jane.

His live events and online programs have gained international status, with tens of thousands of individuals coming through them every year.

Matthew's live events include intensive love-life coaching seminars, transformative five-day retreats, and programs for individuals looking to increase their impact both personally and professionally.

He is regularly hired for speaking engagements with companies such as Procter & Gamble, Accenture, and Virgin. Matthew has also worked on product launches with Hugo Boss, Bare Escentuals, and the Perfume Shop.

He has been invited to speak in front of British royalty and the students of Oxford University, and has hosted the Sales Consultant of the year Awards with Proctor & Gamble.

Matthew regularly works with well-known individuals, from Christina Aguilera to CEOs and senior directors of Fortune 500 companies.

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"Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world. His incredible understanding of love and relationships makes him the absolute best love guru! This book is a necessary tool for anyone looking for love."--Eva Longoria, actor/producer

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The essential guide for women who want to find - and keep - their perfect man.

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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
By Lana
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Although there are many good ideas that definitely work, the author is young and has not enough experience/understanding of changes in relationships in more mature age. If you are young and inexperienced this is a good book for you, but I already knew and could use most of what was in the book. The book would benefit from including more examples (phrases, real life situations, etc), not just general thoughts on the subject.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Power in your hands 11 Feb 2013
By Anna
For me the book is packed with examples of solid common sense and tact when it comes to dating which makes an intelligent read and it's rather needed reinforement nowadays. It's backed up with expertise and techniques to try together with positive approach to life that every woman should at least try in order to live a happier life in itself.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Very informative 24 Dec 2013
By Kaz
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I wish that I'd had this book prior to my ever dating! After three failed long term relationships I now know where I was going wrong. It's a must for any women trying to find love or keep her guy for good. Highly recommended. I can pass on my new found knowledge to my daughter.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Food For Thought 22 Dec 2013
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The term "Get The Guy" is a double-meaning. Its means both "understand men" and "get a boyfriend". The reason I gave the book such a high rating is that I bought it to understand men better and it really helped with that.

The author doesn't sugar-coat the work involved in finding a partner, the sting of rejection or the anguish of failed relationships. He is brutally honest about the process.

Mr Hussey does not guarantee that you will find a boyfriend (of course) but he does give very sound practical advice on maximizing your chances of meeting new single men and having positive flirtatious interactions with them. The specific advice on how to flirt was hilarious to me only because it could have been lifted directly from pick-up guides aimed at men (yes, I've read some of those...).

Reading this book, I was struck by the similarities between the sexes more than the differences. There do seem to be some behaviours and attitudes that are universally attractive to just about everyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Both men and women want to feel "special" to someone. That they could not be easily replaced by some other random man or woman who happened to be available.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Aren't the human race just fascinating! 22 Nov 2013
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For anyone looking for accurate and timely advice on this particular subject, this book which is clearly and well presented in my opinion, if just the job. The book had a good pace and did not drag out the subject matter unnecessarily. I also felt the author had an honest and pleasant presentation which was refreshing to read.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful & inspiring 30 Aug 2013
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I have the kindle version which is great as it has several video extras/asides that help to reinforce or add to Matthews message.
It's not about getting a man at any cost, his approach is about believing in yourself and knowing that you are a fabulous catch and therefore why wouldn't ANY man want to be with you!?
He gives sensible achievable tips on self confidence and male psychology. These coupled together are game changing for me as a newly single woman in her 40's.
It's a book I will refer to time and time again. Read it coupled with Mandy Hales "The single woman" and ladies .... You will be unstoppable. Even if that special man isn't quite on the horizon you won't care. You will know you are worth the wait & will know exactly what to do when he finally does arrive!!!
Thankyou Matthew!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars How to get your Man!!! 8 Aug 2013
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Some good tips in the book which has now also gone round several of my single friends! Good advice but a lot is also common sense.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars You must read it!! 20 Jun 2013
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I began this book with skepticism, and I've end up becoming one BIG fan! The magic of Matt is that he keeps it simple and down to earth. You don't need to walk on the moon to change your love life, just adjust here and there and the results are amazing!!
I love this book, I recommend it, it has useful insight, and it's fun fun fun!!!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow
Great book to read. Full of great tips, very true and very honest !!!! Can't wait for the next book.
Published 9 days ago by PDH
3.0 out of 5 stars Chuckle.
I could not stop laughing. His name 'Hussey' rhymes with p****.


I bet he gets that a lot. Maybe he should change his name....
Published 10 days ago by Canopus72
5.0 out of 5 stars I've learnt ALOT!!!
Awesome read and I now know where I've been going wrong all these years! Feel like it's given me a confidence boost too and the videos throughout the book are great :-) plus... Read more
Published 22 days ago by miss L Edwards
5.0 out of 5 stars For all women who want to change their mindset in order to get...
Great book. Encourages women to place a high value on themselves and not accept any less in a relationship than they deserve. Read more
Published 29 days ago by Ms. H. Macfarlane-grieve
5.0 out of 5 stars Great clever book!
This is a great book to give you clues into the male's informative and clever. It not only teaches you how to be confident in getting what you want in life and from men,... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Emma
5.0 out of 5 stars useful
It's a very useful book, full of practical advice. helps to understand men's way of thinking. I really recommend it.
Published 1 month ago by Eugenia Solomkina
4.0 out of 5 stars Get the Guy
I enjoyed reading a male view on relationships for a change. Matthew has a very positive and encouraging view on life.
Published 1 month ago by Boomshingaling
5.0 out of 5 stars Best relationship advice
This book is an easy read. I've already started to use some of the tips and am getting better results. Read more
Published 1 month ago by miss keera dutfield
5.0 out of 5 stars The best book I've read on this subject...
I'm single at the moment and not looking for a relationship but really enjoyed this book anyway. A lot of it made complete sense and the video blogs and examples of what to / what... Read more
Published 1 month ago by NikkiG
4.0 out of 5 stars It's good but the font size is small, one size up for the next version...
I have been to one of Matthews get the guy women's weekend recently and it was the last one EVER.... But it was amazing. Met lovely people and life seems to be better... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Rachel H
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