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Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve [Paperback]

Matthew Hussey , Stephen Hussey
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (126 customer reviews)

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Book Description

11 Feb 2014

This is the book that single women have been waiting for! Written by the hottest dating coach on the scene, Matthew Hussey, it offers clear, honest and practical advice for women on how to find their ideal man - and, importantly, how to keep him. Using simple steps, Matthew guides us through the complex maze of dating and shows us just how to find the guy, get the guy and keep the guy.

Through his work as a peak performance coach, Matthew has gained unparalleled access into what makes guys tick when it comes to women. He is now using this 'insider information' to advise women who have been unsuccessful in their quest for a lasting relationship with the right man. His Get the Guy coaching events are hugely successful and the glowing testimonials he receives from those he has helped to find love just go to show that his advice really does work.

In Get the Guy, Matthew shares his dating secrets and provides women with the toolkit they need to approach men, and to create and maintain relationships. Along the way, he explodes some commonly held myths about what it is that guys really want, shares strategies on how women can take control of their dating destinies and empowers them to go out there and find an exhilarating, adventurous love life.

--This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Product details

  • Paperback: 247 pages
  • Publisher: Harperwave; Reprint edition (11 Feb 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0062241753
  • ISBN-13: 978-0062241757
  • Product Dimensions: 19.8 x 13.2 x 2.5 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (126 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 937,296 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Matthew Hussey is an international speaker and Human Dynamics coach. He'll be seen in the US this spring on NBC's Ready For Love and is a regular expert on MTV's Plain Jane.

His live events and online programs have gained international status, with tens of thousands of individuals coming through them every year.

Matthew's live events include intensive love-life coaching seminars, transformative five-day retreats, and programs for individuals looking to increase their impact both personally and professionally.

He is regularly hired for speaking engagements with companies such as Procter & Gamble, Accenture, and Virgin. Matthew has also worked on product launches with Hugo Boss, Bare Escentuals, and the Perfume Shop.

He has been invited to speak in front of British royalty and the students of Oxford University, and has hosted the Sales Consultant of the year Awards with Proctor & Gamble.

Matthew regularly works with well-known individuals, from Christina Aguilera to CEOs and senior directors of Fortune 500 companies.

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"Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world. His incredible understanding of love and relationships makes him the absolute best love guru! This book is a necessary tool for anyone looking for love."--Eva Longoria, actor/producer --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Book Description

The essential guide for women who want to find - and keep - their perfect man. --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful & inspiring 30 Aug 2013
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
I have the kindle version which is great as it has several video extras/asides that help to reinforce or add to Matthews message.
It's not about getting a man at any cost, his approach is about believing in yourself and knowing that you are a fabulous catch and therefore why wouldn't ANY man want to be with you!?
He gives sensible achievable tips on self confidence and male psychology. These coupled together are game changing for me as a newly single woman in her 40's.
It's a book I will refer to time and time again. Read it coupled with Mandy Hales "The single woman" and ladies .... You will be unstoppable. Even if that special man isn't quite on the horizon you won't care. You will know you are worth the wait & will know exactly what to do when he finally does arrive!!!
Thankyou Matthew!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
By Kate D
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
Honestly, read this girlies and cringe - laugh - cry - gasp! This is a great book which really does lift the lid on the male mind. The way in which this is written is almost as if Matthew is 'telling you off' for the crazy ways in which you have behaved in the past. It is full of useful hints, tips and ideas of ways to make shift changes to your behaviour in order to make you more attractive to the opposite sex, not only this but there are loads of ideas and suggestions which have a positive impact on all of your life! Who would ever be aware of how your body language can convey such strong messages (usually of 'Go Away, I am not interested!' to guys!). Definitely an ESSENTIAL read for people of all ages! I now have four of my friends also ploughing through this so that we are all going to be on the same page when 'catching' and not 'catching up'. I cannot recommend this enough!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
I love this book it is packed with great advice - Matthew's like a best male friend who gives you all that insider knowledge you need to bring your A game. The great thing it's about confidence and not manipulation; the book encourages you to be the best you possible.

I went for the audio version; Matthew has a lovely voice and it was great listening to the advice and I have started putting some of the items into practice. The video snippets and links were excellent.

I've been more aware of striking up conversations, and I’m making inroads into developing a full social life; making sure that I’m out and about interacting with the world and not waiting for Mr. Right (for me) to be delivered by Royal Mail Special Delivery.
I love that this is about self development and becoming a ‘High Value Woman’ both empowering and refreshing and a really great aid for someone like me who was off the dating scene for 10 years and now making a comeback.

The only reason why this is not a 5 star review is due to the fact I’m at odds with the advice with regards to controlling / jealous partners. Based on own my personal experience tolerating or being with partners with traits such as this can potentially damaging in the long term. Control can also be a possible red flag for an abusive partner.

If you are someone who has repeatedly been involved in relationships with controlling or relationships that are unhealthy - it would be more advisable to read a book such as Women Who Love Too Much, Help I’m in Love with a Narcissist or Codependent No More.

Other than that this is a fantastic resource and I got an immense amount of positive inspiration from this book. A great tool for upping your dating game!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Every single woman High Value needs this book!!!!! 30 April 2013
By Carole
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This book is absolutely a must!! I had the pleasure to attend Matthew Hussey Women Week-end and the retreat in March in Florida. Both were absolutely amazing!!! I have bought this book to myself and for all my single friend who deserve the best!!! Matthew is smart, he gives very simple advice which will make all the difference in your love life. Forget "the rules" or all others (that I have read also)....if you want only one, just choose this one, tjis is the best present you can give to yourself!!
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
As a single person about to enter into the dating world properly for the first time, this book has been an invaluable read. I had no idea where to begin, was sort of hoping that fate, circumstance, whatever you want to call it, would step in and sort things out for me, and was terrified about talking to any member of the opposite sex that I wasn't already acquainted with! The first two parts of this book contain helpful, practical tips about ways that you can make your life more open to meeting other people, and how to get things going when you do meet them. The advice is written in a clear and informal style, making the book really easy to read, and it all makes so much sense. I feel like I'm now armed with practical tools that I can call on whenever I need them, which has made the prospect of dating seem so much less daunting. You won't want to take on every single technique he suggests (I'll certainly be picking and choosing the things that were most helpful to me), but he acknowledges that, and I can not stress enough that for people in the early stages of dating, this is well worth a read.

There are quite a few 'Video Alerts' dotted throughout the book, but they tend to be at the end of sections or chapters, so I didn't find that they really disrupted the flow of my reading too much. Some are worded more persuasively than others, which can leave you with that niggling feeling that you've missed out on something, but then the guy's trying to sell a business, so it's hardly surprising, and I only saw it as a minor downside to the book.

For me, the bigger issues came with the latter part of the book, when he moves onto keeping the guy that you've found.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A great investment
A great book from an experienced coach.

Matthew's ability to communicate is exceptional.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book (I have read it 3 times... Read more
Published 1 day ago by The Joy of England
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it!!
What a great book, what a great guy, he makes so much sense!! Can't get enough!! Highly recommended!!!
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Published 7 days ago by Carole Pickett
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Very good and informative book! Wow!
Published 10 days ago by Netty
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Friend says it is a great book
Published 14 days ago by Wendy Smith
4.0 out of 5 stars This is a great read for all women
This is a great read for all women. Whether you're trying to get the guy or you've already got the guy I think we can all take something valuable from this book.
Published 14 days ago by valentina
1.0 out of 5 stars Wot a load of bull.. Read it to ...
Wot a load of bull.. Read it to see what all the fuss was about..didn't even get 1/4 of the way through.
Published 14 days ago by nicki m
5.0 out of 5 stars But good to here it from a guy himself
Takes a lot of words to tell us to get out there. No one will knock at your door. But good to here it from a guy himself!
Published 14 days ago by Sanguine
5.0 out of 5 stars really good, not much more to say
really good, not much more to say.
Matthew Hussey is friendly and confidence building, he is also a stunner which is a bonus. Read more
Published 17 days ago by Eleanor Jolley
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